amaysngrace Posted January 5, 2007 Posted January 5, 2007 I just don't get it. My BF broke up with me on New Years. Called me a f--ing bitch to my face. All cause some guy from California called and I wanted to talk to him about it so I could be upfront with him. Plus I was confused on who I really desired. Now he won't leave me alone. Hello??? You broke up with me! Why do you need to torture me by coming by every other day to let me know what a piece of sh^t I am? I already get that. I already regret telling you. I already regret not telling Cali about us. I'm sorry for the hundredth billionth time. What does he want me to do to prove to him that I know I screwed up? I just don't get it.
lorr Posted January 5, 2007 Posted January 5, 2007 I just don't get it. My BF broke up with me on New Years. Called me a f--ing bitch to my face. All cause some guy from California called and I wanted to talk to him about it so I could be upfront with him. Plus I was confused on who I really desired. Now he won't leave me alone. Hello??? You broke up with me! Why do you need to torture me by coming by every other day to let me know what a piece of sh^t I am? I already get that. I already regret telling you. I already regret not telling Cali about us. I'm sorry for the hundredth billionth time. What does he want me to do to prove to him that I know I screwed up? I just don't get it. Look both of you are broken up, so he should not be showing up at yours, and putting you down in the process. Whats done is done, you've said your apologies, so now you need to tell him more firmly and clearly to leave you alone, and move on.
Author amaysngrace Posted January 5, 2007 Author Posted January 5, 2007 Look both of you are broken up, so he should not be showing up at yours, and putting you down in the process. Whats done is done, you've said your apologies, so now you need to tell him more firmly and clearly to leave you alone, and move on. Yeah but I'm not doing that though. I'm going to tell Mr. California that he's too old for me. No really I'm just going to be honest with Cali and tell him I'm with a guy that makes me happy and I'm not going to jeopardize our relationship for anyone. I guess whatever crazy behaviors BF was exemplifying worked. He got me.
Author amaysngrace Posted January 5, 2007 Author Posted January 5, 2007 yep and I'm heading there now. He's off today. The truth is he makes me happy. Mostly always. It's just if I look for bad things sure I'll find them. But I have to make an honest effort to try to appreciate the good in him while I offer him patience in the areas which could be better. Sometimes I think I have unrealistic views on others. I should put myself under a microscope as easily. And I appreciate a good man. Especially one who can forgive me for my shortcomings.
coco_milkshake Posted January 5, 2007 Posted January 5, 2007 Did he apologise to you for swearing at you?
Author amaysngrace Posted January 5, 2007 Author Posted January 5, 2007 Did he apologise to you for swearing at you? Yeah he did that I think on Tuesday. The day I brought back his palm trees whatever day that was. Not to make excuses for the guy but I did make him feel second best. And he's been through that once already. His exW got pregnant by another man when they were married and then she left him. I hurt an old wound in him. Not to say the words weren't harsh but I can certainly understand why he called me a f--ing bitch...he was just being honest.
Lostandfound Posted January 5, 2007 Posted January 5, 2007 I said this on another thread, but it seems to me that the girls seeem to always opt for the bad guy. I would never dream of calling my ex a F*&^%NG B&*(H, whatever she did. I wish you well, i really do, but there seems to be no justice with affairs of the heart. Maybe I am too nice.
Author amaysngrace Posted January 5, 2007 Author Posted January 5, 2007 I would never dream of calling my ex a F*&^%NG B&*(H, whatever she did. Maybe I am too nice. Sure I found it completely out of character for him to address me this way but I can understand the emotions behind the words. Plus we're from New Jersey. The word f^cking here is an adjective.
Lostandfound Posted January 5, 2007 Posted January 5, 2007 But is it classed as a nice activity though
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