Now what?

[Guest18]

I met a guy a few months ago at school, found out that he had a girlfriend so I stopped pursuing him, however he has continued to pursue me. He called me drunk a few weeks ago and needed a ride home, and somehow we ended up making out. We spent 4-5 hours together and talked about a lot including how awful his girlfriend is to him (she has apparently cheated several times, done lots of drugs which he is not into, claimed she was pregnant to get him to stay, etc.)

 

He texted me the next day telling me how amazing I am and that his relationship with this other girl is over he just hasn't ended it yet. I got really busy with the holidays and wasn't in town a whole lot so I haven't seen him since that night. He has called me a few times and we have had text message converstaions every two or three days. Most of these converstaions he started, I think I only started one of them

 

I don't know what to do now... I don't know if he broke up with her already or not, I don't know if he will try and see me again... I kinda think that he might try and come over tomorrow or Saturday but I don't want to be dissapointed if he doesn't call. I want to see him again but I don't know what to do with the whole situation that he has a girlfriend... (I don't think that he broke up with her, I think he would have said something if he had)

 

any advice would be great

[Lauriebell82]

that might be kind of a messy situation to get involved in. if by chance he does actually end things with her, if u guys start actually dating what happens if he wants her back. guys with gfs/recently broken up relationships are very dangerous and could just end up in heartache. he's probably not going to break up with her if he hasnt by now, so maybe u should just move on and try to find some guy who is not attached and will devote and think about only u. ur the one who is gonna end up hurt so save urself the pain and heartache. i'm sure u can find a bf who isnt involved with anyone else.