Has anyone here had a threesome?...(while in a relationship?)

[Guest]

I'm speaking of the 2 girls, 1 guy scenario. (a couple, plus an extra girl)

 

I've been with my girlfriend for about a year. I've always know that she is sometimes attracted to women, and has had sex with a women once or twice in the past.

 

She considers herself bisexual, but only desires long term relationships with men.

 

She has at times told me about a fantasy of hers, Having a threesome with 2 girls and 1 guy.

 

We never really talked about actually doing it because I always worried I might get jealous, and she always worried she might get jealous.

 

Anyways, the opportunity has recently presented itself to have a threesome with a female friend of ours who also sometimes likes girls. This friend has had threesomes with a married couple in the past..

 

This friend and my girlfriend have always been attracted to each other, but life, relationships, etc. have always kept them from acting on this attraction.

 

We both like the idea, and we're both turned on by the idea, but we're both scared of the potential drama and problems that could arise.

 

We've talked about making ground rules, things we might not like to allow, but we're still just talking about it at this point. (although, talking about it has lead to some great sex the last few days )

 

She seems more ready to do it than me, and it seems she's mostly waiting for me to decide whether or not this would be ok with me. Obviously having 2 women at once is a huge turn on for myself (and most guys I'd guess) but I also don't want to screw up my relationship.

 

Anyone here have any advise or past experiences they want to share?

[IpAncA]

 

Anyone here have any advice?

 

Yeah don't do it. You have no idea if that other girl has an STD.

[Mythical]

Yes DEFINETLY the STD situation.....you can't trust anyone with that. even if they say they don't they might not even know themsleves.

 

Me and my boy have been together for 1 year and 7 months and we have also been interested in it. We have even thaught about the girl we were going to ask and have been very close in many situations.

 

DON"T DO IT WITH SOMEONE YOU WANT TO BE WITH!!

 

It will ruin things, someone will get jealous and it will cause trouble, sometimes even the girl added to the mix causes HUGE problems;

 

What me and my boy do do though is when we are together we kind of re-an act a girl being with us think about it, talk about it while were Fu*king and get very into it.

I like to watch lesbian porn with him, and than do our thing, its very exciting and if you have a good imagination its awesome and without the STD's, ruined relationship and screwy after thoughts.

[luvtoto]

Nope. But, I have been propositioned by a married couple once...on the dance floor.

[whichwayisup]

This friend and my girlfriend have always been attracted to each other, but life, relationships, etc. have always kept them from acting on this attraction.

 

There's your reason NOT to do it. They have 'something' and by having a threesome will only open the door...........

 

She's waiting for 'you' to decide? Not fair because that seems like if things go badly she'll blame you.

 

Don't do it! If she wants to have sex with other women, break up with her.

[hitch1984]

hmmm every mans dream, but on a serious note. Your going to have to sit down with your wife and discuss the pros and cons of doing this. Like it was stated make sure there are no real feelings between the 2 of yall and what not.......but if you are secure enough in your relationship then i say go for it. But if there is the slightest amount of doubt then i would do it at this time, i would wait another time when you are 100% sure of what you want

 

 

 

not bad advice from a 23 year old right haha

[BlueEyedSarah]

I think you shouldn't do a 3-some. I read it breaks up A LOT of couples.