Anyways Posted January 5, 2007 Posted January 5, 2007 When it comes to spending time/dating with a significant other or a prospective partner, do you plan your weekend/your days together ahead of time? Maybe sometimes it is just last minute or the same day. I've always thought that if people really care about you and want to be with you that they will want to plan ahead so that they can make sure they spend time with you. But I always know that I myself tend to do things last minute with friends/lovers and I just let it all depend on how I feel that day and how nice it will be that day. I've always men that try to date me somewhat try to get an appointment on my days off. It is really flattering. It makes me feel good. It also seems like some men that wanna seem like they don't want to seem desperate ask me last minute so that it doesn't seem like they were waiting to chill with me. I just wanted to get an idea on what most ppl do. How most ppl treat the ppl they care for. If planning it the same day or a few hours before mean that they don't care about the person too much??? How do you guys treat your SO or person you want to date or dating?
jusified Posted January 5, 2007 Posted January 5, 2007 As a guy, I personally like to plan ahead and organise what to d with my So, or at least leave a side for us to do something, even if it involvessitting around. One of the many thigs that hurt me about my past relationship was that the girl would cancel on me last minute and treat me as if I was not important to her and then act like she has the right to do it. Its all good when alot of things are spontaneous but it is always good to have days planed for each other and not change it last minute. Of cause if you live together then there would be more spontaneous things and less planed things.
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