Guest Posted January 4, 2007 Posted January 4, 2007 my boyfriend of 2 years and i havent been getting along as well as we used to. a couple times we have gotten in fights and he said he wanted a break, but then after we talk he always says he feels better and doesnt want a break anymore. one time we got in a fight and i wrote him a letter telling him how much i loved him and how it was worth it to work on our relationship, ad that i can see us together in the future. he said he felt bad because he cant those same nice things back to me. it is our senior year and so the topic of college keeps coming up. he is signed with a college for sports and i have been accepted there as well. i need to choose between 2. when we talked about how he felt about our future he said he switches because sometimes he feels he wants to stay together and sometimes he says he thinks he wants to meet new people. is it worth it to even keep dating if i will just be let down? i am his first girlfriend ever and i dont want to hold him back, but i want to stay with him. i feel that he is just afraid to take a break sometimes because he doesnt want to be single or something. we're okay now, but theres always dread hanging above my head about what he said about not being able to say those good things back ot me, and he how doesnt know if he wants this anymore. what should i do... im frustrated.
jusified Posted January 5, 2007 Posted January 5, 2007 What do you want?? How much do you want to be with him?? Thats the most important question. The second most important question is how much does he want to be with you and committed to you. If he isn;t and his already hinted it, then when he goes to college there will be alot mroe opportunities for him to explore.
sunangel Posted January 5, 2007 Posted January 5, 2007 He seems to be confused about the relationship. I went through this myself my senior year in high school. He feels that maybe since you've been the only girl in his life maybe he should see what else is out there. My opinion is that you should speak your mind and give him the option of being free if he wants it. Bottom line......... if he's truly into you than he's not going anywhere! The truth hurts like hell, but wouldn't you rather live the truth instead of a lie. Your gonna drive yourself crazy if you keep with these feelings of dread.... and remember "WHAT'S MEANT TO BE WILL BE"
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