GF Problems

[Armor Wolf]

I been dating my new gf for 2 months now, things are going great and I like her alot. My new gf had me believe in love again and so very happy with her. My problem is that I sometimes don't understand her, recently she been sick since Saturday and this past Tuesday I came over to her house and surprised her with soup and orange juice to make her feel better. I layed with on her bed caressing her hair and cheek until she feel asleep and until I had to go to work. Today after work I wanted to go over to her house and bring her dinner or just keep her company and she told me no and didn't want me to come over.

 

So around 8:00 PM I called her and told her how I felt, I told her I wanted to their for her, I'm her bf I wanna do things for her I know she is an independent women at times but I wanna show her how much I care. All she really said was "Ok" and then told me she was off to bed. What should I do? I wanted to surprise her with Roses tomorrow but i'm not sure if she wants me to come over and see her. I really don't understand why, I try being a great bf but sometimes I feel like I fail .

[Island Girl]

If she is independent you could risk smothering her. I know for me, too much too fast was a quick way to send me running or thinking of pushing someone away.

[Lauriebell82]

she could want some space, although what ur trying to do is real sweet. or maybe she just doesn't want u to see her all sick and feeling like crap. call her for now and tell her ur thinking about her and would like to stop over and see how she is doing. some girls like space, others don't. i know that i would be ecstatic if my bf did those kinds of things for me when i was sick, but women are different in relationships. 2 months is still a fairly new relationship so maybe she is just feeling overwhelmed.

 

just for now tell her u love her and that u hope she is feeling better. if she keeps pushing u away even after she gets better, then maybe u guys should talk.