musica Posted January 4, 2007 Posted January 4, 2007 good people,especcillay you ladies out there..i have a situation i am engaged to a very special woman..but there is a couple of things that make me think that am crazy...suddenlly i do not listen, and am always being defesive, and i i look at the situation objectivelly i blieve i have been the same person 3 years back.. can anyone tell me what is going on.. help needed urgently
Island Girl Posted January 4, 2007 Posted January 4, 2007 If she is stressed and is feeling pressure from the engagement it could come out in these kinds of comments. That usually means she is not communicating her fears of the marriage. She may be feeling "cold feet" which is a back and forth situation. It isn't usually about the love for the fiance but the commitment itself. Is she possibly having these feeling and fears tallking with you about it? For instance she could feel if she tells you about what she is feeling it may make you insecure or feel she doesn't love you.
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