Guest Posted January 4, 2007 Posted January 4, 2007 Well, this is not my first post here but it is my first in this relationship. This girl and I have been dating for about three months. It has gotten pretty serious like i love you and such. I like it alot because I mean and and I believe she does too. Btw, I am 20 and she is 21. I am really interested in making this long term. She is Italian and I am German and Irish, I say this because I dont know if it there culture not to be affectionate or what but she has a hard time with it. Sometimes it seems as though she just doesnt care. For example, tonight I told her how i hope she feels better because she had some trouble with her parents and such and she was in a bad mood, and she was like you dont understand, i tried to explain it but whatever. And I said that I would listen but I got fed up and said if she didnt want to talk to me she didnt have to because it did not seem as though she really was interested. So she said fine good night, and I told her to give me five minutes to try and help put her in a good mood. She said no I dont want to talk to you and said bye, without i love you and hung up. She just doesnt seem like she cares as much as I do but when I talk to her about it she says she loves me and cares about me. I feel like I am being walked on, but I know if I say something to her about it tomorrow nicely, because I am a too nice of a guy sometimes, she will just say fine i dont want to talk to you and I am supposed to see her on Friday which she will probably say dont bother coming to see me. Then what do I do?? Ugh, no good. Please help, give some advice thanks. Sorry so long. If more clarification is needed then I will explain.
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