pricillia Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 All, Why are some girls attracted to guys who treat them badly? Forbin explain badly...
Rooster_DAR Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 Another reason is women are attracted to men with confidence and masculinity. A person that treats them bad is seen as extremely confident, and so that makes him attractive. Unfortunately they pick someone who treats them bad not realizing there are some men out there that are confident and non abusive. I do know that most women like a guy who takes control and is confident. I was a big **ssy in a couple of my relationships and consequently the **it fell apart, but when I'm confident and a little cocky it seems to draw females in much more. Cheers!
pricillia Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 Another reason is women are attracted to men with confidence and masculinity. A person that treats them bad is seen as extremely confident, and so that makes him attractive. Unfortunately they pick someone who treats them bad not realizing there are some men out there that are confident and non abusive. I do know that most women like a guy who takes control and is confident. I was a big **ssy in a couple of my relationships and consequently the **it fell apart, but when I'm confident and a little cocky it seems to draw females in much more. Cheers! women like to please thier man for the most part. but women do like confidence in a man it is very attractive, but cocky is a turnoff.
Rooster_DAR Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 women like to please thier man for the most part. but women do like confidence in a man it is very attractive, but cocky is a turnoff. I mean cocky in a confidence sort of way. You know, just kind of kidding around cocky, but not totally arrogant if that makes sense.
Porn_Guy Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 but women do like confidence in a man it is very attractive, but cocky is a turnoff. sorry but the two are inter-related and its very hard to seperate them...its usually a package deal
Art_Critic Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 I was a big **ssy in a couple of my relationships and consequently the **it fell apart, You miss the part about the fact that relationships of guys that are confident and treat women like crap also fail.. Your relationships didn't fail because you were a big sissy..If you had been super confident and unsissy they still would've failed.. All relationships have the same chance of failure
pricillia Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 I mean cocky in a confidence sort of way. You know, just kind of kidding around cocky, but not totally arrogant if that makes sense. makes sense, for me I like a guy that shows confidence but is not so straight foward... the one who sits back and watches peaks my interest. then at least if I give him the green light I know that it was well thought out. Humor makes a big difference as well.
Pyro Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 sorry but the two are inter-related and its very hard to seperate them...its usually a package deal Sad but true, but a real man can separate the two.
Art_Critic Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 I mean cocky in a confidence sort of way. You know, just kind of kidding around cocky, but not totally arrogant if that makes sense. That is all about the attraction phase of a relationship .. who is attracted to a putz ? Is still doesn't mean that you will keep the person.. people seem to think that if only they could change the way they are they would stay.. Not true..
Rooster_DAR Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 That is all about the attraction phase of a relationship .. who is attracted to a putz ? Is still doesn't mean that you will keep the person.. people seem to think that if only they could change the way they are they would stay.. Not true.. AC you are correct. A relationship is a gamble regardless of the person I think. But if you want to get the chicks, you damn well be sure you have some good confidence in place. Cheers!
Art_Critic Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 But if you want to get the chicks, Key phrase... how true.. Confidence and some game will make your numbers climb... I remember the days when I had great game..then I turned 35 and realized that bedding a girl wasn't working for the long haul and I needed to start working from the ground up instead of from the bra down.. Oh.. those were the days...
lindya Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 So girls are attracted to feeling low self-esteem? I don't get it. I think the desire to have a "scary boyfriend" (ie someone others will be intimidated by) stems from short term, faulty thinking that's related to low self esteem. If a woman feels that she's low down on the pecking order, hates that feeling but doesn't have the personal resources to raise herself up, she might well look to an aggressive man to provide her with a short cut to higher status. Association with an man who other men are intimidated by/look up to can give her a sense of vicarious power ("ie - best not mess with her...don't you know who her boyfriend is??") Being treated like crap by him would probably be the unpleasant part of the bargain, but something she might well put up with in order to keep getting the perks of having a popular or intimidating boyfriend.
Rooster_DAR Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 At my age I should not have any game, but for some reason I do. BTW I did spend the weekend with that 21 year old from work, and damn it was a blast. D'oh!
Porn_Guy Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 Being treated like crap by him would probably be the unpleasant part of the bargain,. for her it may be pleasant, unpleasant, or both....depending on the woman
lindya Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 for her it may be pleasant, unpleasant, or both....depending on the woman Or it may be a good technique for lining up other options for herself. Women who appear to be in bad relationships often seem to have other guys sniffing around them....doubtless waiting for the moment when they can untie them from the rail-tracks (if a gap in their hectic schedule of bitching about how idiotic and masochistic women are permits).
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