Guest - L Posted January 2, 2007 Posted January 2, 2007 Hello, So, this guy and I started hanging out a month ago. We have gone on many dates and have a great time together when we go out. However, he flakes out sometimes as we all do. We have slept together now a few times. The situation is weird because he is friend's with my brother and I am friend's with his brother's wife. So people are definetly putting a lot of pressure on us 'working' or are very curious about how things are going. so it can be annoying. However, New years we were planning to leave together... and all our friends were there and he ignored me basically the whole night. His sister - in - law (my friend) talked to him and asked him what the heck he was doing with me. and he told her he really liked me and didn't want to screw it up. But, that wanted to take it slow. What does it mean... taking it slow can someone help define this for me and tell me your experience???? I also do not want to screw this up so I am trying to balance leaving him alone and not calling all the time with not wanting him to think I am blowing him off. thanks in advance for the help!
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