Undefinable Posted January 2, 2007 Posted January 2, 2007 Ok theres this chica I like and shes just became my buddy this year. We like really just got to know each other a month ago, and i already knew she had a boyfriend. I felt like she was sending me mixed signals too. I've already told her I liked her, and we have a lot of similiar intrest. She would let me give her massages, and we often talked and exchanged little poems we wrote. I really like this girl but i dont know if she really likes me, we hug ALOT! and she had a party recently. Well at this party she hugged me constantly and put her head on my shoulder, and then she pecked me on the cheek, just out of the blue. Of course i had no problem with it but i really like this girl, and yes she was sober. The thing i really want to know is does she like me back? She tells me how sexy i am every day and we can chat up a storm... So am I in or am i just wasting my time? If you read this whole story I'll give u a nickel!
Author Undefinable Posted January 2, 2007 Author Posted January 2, 2007 I mean she has a boyfriend and all but she still treats me this way, and I dont know her boyfirend so thats probably a good think. I really like her but ever time i like a girl sometimes i come out with a broken heart so do i really need to stay with this chick and should i move on?
norajane Posted January 2, 2007 Posted January 2, 2007 It really doesn't matter if she likes you - she has a boyfriend. She probably just likes the flirting and the attention. Since she's not leaving her boyfriend, MOVE ON and stop wasting your time.
clatan Posted January 17, 2007 Posted January 17, 2007 It really doesn't matter if she likes you - she has a boyfriend. She probably just likes the flirting and the attention. Since she's not leaving her boyfriend, MOVE ON and stop wasting your time. Yeah she has a boyfriend. So what? If she has a husband, that's a different thing, but a boyfriend means nothing. Why do people act as if that's so sacred? If you want to date her, ask her. She may not necessarily drop her boyfriend the minute she goes out with you on date though, so it's up for you to decide if you're okay with that. Myself, I don't see the big advantage of seeing one person exclusively when you're in the dating stage of life. That's what it's about is meeting different women/men. How do you do that effectively when you cling to one person all the time? If she still is seeing her boyfriend after she's dating you too, I'd go ahead and feel free to see whoever I wanted while you're dating her too. How can she expect you to see only her when she's seeing two guys?
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