Valentine Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 So...here's my problem: So...i've known this girl for a year and a half or so and recently we've gotten together. One day, after a while of conversation with her friends, I've been told to be more...assertive and go ahead and kiss her. Although i want to and all...i have absolutely no dating experience. Any ideas on how i should do it? Im visiting her house on thursday this week so....help me...
jusified Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 if a friend of hers (like a relative close one) tell you to do it then its most likely she likes you. Just go with the flow and flirt with her and see how things go. Grab her hand and lean over for a kiss. Not enough details to know if she really actually likes you, you can take the safer (nicer approach for me) by just casually ask her to do something with you alone, on a date and just hint a few things and see how she reacts then you would know and go from there.
shoesies05 Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 totally agree with jusified! listen if its a close friend! dont be afraid to kiss her, go for it! The only way you get any dating experience is by starting good luck
Author Valentine Posted January 1, 2007 Author Posted January 1, 2007 Well...i know she likes me, and yes i know i gotta do it but... How?
Lauriebell82 Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 here is the perfect first kiss scenerio: sit her down somewhere (couch is perfect). once u guys are alone look at her and tell her how beautiful u think she is. then take ur hand on stroke her hair then touch the side of her face and pull her in a kiss her. of course u can vary this to the situation or whatever u feel is right. basically just find a perfect alone moment for u too and lean in and go for it. butter her up by flattering her, and DEF. do the hair thing: girls love that! ok hope i helped!
CosmoBella Posted January 4, 2007 Posted January 4, 2007 Aww how cute. When you go for the kiss just try to breathe slowly and baam!! The kiss. You know she likes you and you like her. She'll be nervous too. It'll be sweet.
Author Valentine Posted January 4, 2007 Author Posted January 4, 2007 Dont laugh at me but...how do i kiss her >.< I'm still a growing boy, got lots to learn so please help ?
ls3360 Posted January 4, 2007 Posted January 4, 2007 What if im...nervous? Have you touched each other in any way? If not, skip kissing and just grab her hand. Come up with any excuse you like. Lead her to the next room for something (by the hand). Play footsie. Do whatever. Just get used to contact. Fret over kissing some other time. If you're already there, just give her a peck on the cheek the first time. Next time maybe she'll give you the peck. You might want to keep a diary of everything you're thinking and doing. You might have fun reading it in ten years as you look back at this.
norajane Posted January 4, 2007 Posted January 4, 2007 Dont laugh at me but...how do i kiss her >.< I'm still a growing boy, got lots to learn so please help ? look into her eyes as you lean toward her slowly. Tilt your head slightly to the right. Press your lips against hers for a couple seconds, and then lean away slowly. If she smiles, do it again.
kdutton66 Posted January 4, 2007 Posted January 4, 2007 i was nervous when i was about to first kiss my girlfriend, but i jswut got over my nerves and straight up kissed her, it felt good to get that off my chest. dont be scared to do it, im pretty sure you wont screw it up
Author Valentine Posted January 5, 2007 Author Posted January 5, 2007 So..this is what happened. Turns out we sorta went on a double date, with her friend and her gr 6 bf >.> We ended up seeing silent hill, but her friend and her bf were behind the couch the whole time and me and my gf were just cuddling. Sometime near the middle i found out she was looking at me and...boom:love:
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