pureinheart Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Hey guess what Pure, I got a tattoo about two months ago on the side of my hip, stretch mark prone area. The tatto artist said to try extra virgin olove oil and moisterizer. He said the chemicals break down scare tissue, which what stretch marks are. I noticed a difference after 4 weeks! Off the subject post! Lighten things up a bit! Wow how cool!!!!!! Olive oil is also good for depression too...beats prozac....which is literally killing people along with other anti depressants......
stillhere Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Maybe her issue is a medical issue. We can guess all we want but a simple observation of her and some comments from a cake eater are nothing to base the judgement of a woman on. It's still the fact that KA shot this guy down, numerous times, and she wants nothing to do with him. So she was being a little catty, so what? I don't see what the big deal is. I do this all the time. I rarely get along with women, only because they feel threatened by me. My closest friends are women who have confidence in themselves, and aren't competing with me every time we go out. Mind you, i'm not in competition with any of my friends, if they want the same guy as me, take him. I'm not going to lose a friendship over a man. Except if he's with me already, then that's a whole different subject.
bonehead Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 If I had reported that this MM W was tall blonde and gorgeously attractive would this thread be any less relevant to our situation? No it wouldnt. It just wouldnt have offened some people.
Trialbyfire Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 It's still the fact that KA shot this guy down, numerous times, and she wants nothing to do with him. So she was being a little catty, so what? I don't see what the big deal is. I do this all the time. I rarely get along with women, only because they feel threatened by me. My closest friends are women who have confidence in themselves, and aren't competing with me every time we go out. Mind you, i'm not in competition with any of my friends, if they want the same guy as me, take him. I'm not going to lose a friendship over a man. Except if he's with me already, then that's a whole different subject. The issue is that betrayed wives end up with some serious self-esteem issues when they're cheated on. It's not something they can help, even if they're gorgeous. It's just the way it is.
bonehead Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 In my line of work I make observations. I take information I am given by family and or bystanders and form a judgement. My treatment is based on observations and judgements. Am I wrong?
bonehead Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 The issue is that betrayed wives end up with some serious self-esteem issues when they're cheated on. It's not something they can help, even if they're gorgeous. It's just the way it is. She made on observation and made a statement based on that and information she was told plus that observation
Trialbyfire Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Why bother if he's going to continuously go prowling. All the more reason why I did what I did today! Because he was prowling! Good points BH. If I had reported that this MM W was tall blonde and gorgeously attractive would this thread be any less relevant to our situation? We'll never know because you probably wouldn't have found the story funny enough to post.
bonehead Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 We'll never know because you probably wouldn't have found the story funny enough to post. I think she would have. It was more about her staying out of the situation then it was the mans wife. She was proud of herself!! And she DESERVED TO BE!!
Author kymberann Posted January 1, 2007 Author Posted January 1, 2007 Olive oil is also good for depression too How much would you recommend? I've heard some good things about apple cider vinegar as well. My sole intention was not to judge this woman! I was commenting on the MM's behavior. We have read about it here before, this isn't the first time and I know for certain it will be brought up again by someone else! So she was being a little catty I agree to a little cattiness on my part. Not making excuses, just merely pointing out why MM do what they do! It just wouldnt have offened some people You are right, but I bet they would still have an arguement just for the sake of arguing!
Trialbyfire Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 I think she would have. It was more about her staying out of the situation then it was the mans wife. She was proud of herself!! And she DESERVED TO BE!! Deserved to be proud for not hooking up with a married man? Is this like being an alcoholic that you are unable to resist a MM?
pureinheart Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Have to say selfless burns a lot of calories! Chasing kids, cleaning, mowing the lawn, fixing and putting on new roofs.....and on it goes....I always have been into my own personal care....do my own manicures every other day....always had time. It's just this freaking 15 pounds, for me more weight, no matter what I do in personal care doesn't seem to help me....but 2006 is over !!!!!!! Oh not high maintenance am a do it yourselfer in all things....hate to spend money if it's not needed
bonehead Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 She did what was right. She made a statement based on an observation and information she had received that none of us are party to. So you feel she was wrong. People have made a judgement on her character based on things that she and only she ( on here ) has a knowledge of. We all make judgements. This forum is PROOF. And on her its done with alot less information and observations then KA had in this situation.
Trialbyfire Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Overall, as I expressed in my first post, I'm glad she was able to resist. I explained why people would not be happy about the fact that the W was mocked. That's the long and short of my original comment. The rest was just discussion of possibilities.
pureinheart Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Not really sure on the exact amount of olive oil.....
bonehead Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Overall, as I expressed in my first post, I'm glad she was able to resist. I explained why people would not be happy about the fact that the W was mocked. That's the long and short of my original comment. The rest was just discussion of possibilities. I dont see it as mocking. Observation, information WE are not party to, statement. I never read FAT LAZY B*ITCH. huge difference. And as far as her actions, she stated her intention with her actions. It actually gave me a good laugh, because I know that this guy was very uncomfortable, and I bet he was just dying and hoping and begging I wouldn't do anything else to cause a commotion! If anyone was mocking the wife it was the people who were putting KA done for her statement. Defending someone for an assumption shows you made the same judgement that you assume others made. Oh poor baby, I assume she thinks your overweight because she said she knows why hes looking somewhere else. Maybe he likes his ladies smaller in the chest and she was a DDD.
Author kymberann Posted January 1, 2007 Author Posted January 1, 2007 Deserved to be proud for not hooking up with a married man? Is this like being an alcoholic that you are unable to resist a MM? Damn straight! This is my issue! This is my point of view, something I AM working through and wanted to share with others who are or were in a similar situation. Is that SO wrong, is that so bad? Oh those last 10, 15 pounds! Have to say selfless burns a lot of calories! Chasing kids, cleaning, mowing the lawn, fixing and putting on new roofs.....and on it goes....I always have been into my own personal care....do my own manicures every other day....always had time. Great point, you'd think those last 15 pounds wold melt away though! Good on you for takingtime for those manicures. We all need to self soothe in one way or another!
bonehead Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Deserved to be proud for not hooking up with a married man? Is this like being an alcoholic that you are unable to resist a MM? Damn straight! This is my issue! This is my point of view, something I AM working through and wanted to share with others who are or were in a similar situation. Is that SO wrong, is that so bad? You can hold your head high.
Author kymberann Posted January 1, 2007 Author Posted January 1, 2007 W was mocked. Where the H E double toothpick did that come from, now that's a judgement call! Oye I need some olive oil! or another glass of wine!
Trialbyfire Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Damn straight! This is my issue! This is my point of view, something I AM working through and wanted to share with others who are or were in a similar situation. Is that SO wrong, is that so bad? That is a problem that you do have to work on. Just like it's a problem that betrayed spouses have with self-esteem. Affairs cause so much damage.
Trialbyfire Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Anyway, he walks in WITH HIS WIFE!!! Not that I am being mean, but now i know why he is lookin for somethin, somethin on the side! ANd he is not getting it from me! That would be what I call mockery.
bonehead Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 That is a problem that you do have to work on. Just like it's a problem that betrayed spouses have with self-esteem. Affairs cause so much damage. But a BS shouldnt come onto here and try and rebuild their self esteem by trying to put down OP/FOP and tell them they are wrong at every turn.
bonehead Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 That would be what I call mockery. Its a statement based on information and observation.
pureinheart Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Man Kym....the selfless kept me thin, but it's this job, the night shift...thank God am going back on days...
Trialbyfire Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 But a BS shouldnt come onto here and try and rebuild their self esteem by trying to put down OP/FOP and tell them they are wrong at every turn. They're not rebuilding self-esteem through putting down the OP/FOP, they are expressing their opinion, just like the OP did.
Trialbyfire Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Its a statement based on information and observation. There are less mocking ways to express statements.
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