Lauriebell82 Posted December 31, 2006 Posted December 31, 2006 this is kind of a vent/inquisition about what happened with my boyfriend. i posted stuff under the "holiday dilemma" title so here is something else that happened that i need advice on. well my boyfriend is at home for my bday (which was dec 30th, yesterday) and NYEs. he is coming back tommorrow. he didnt call me all day today and i finally called him at 5:00pm and he acted rude on the phone to me. he said he was already at his friend's new years party which i knew he was going to, but wtf kind of new years party starts at 5? he also then said he couldnt talk to me cause they were about to play a board game. (that sounds strange too). then he said that he had to go and that he would call me later tonight (which sucks cause he's gonna be trashed most likely). he didn't even tell me he loved me he just hung up real quick. maybe he didn't want to say that in front of a room full of people i dont know. what is his problem? why is he being so rude to me? i just called to wish him a happy new year and tell him i love him and miss him and stuff. i'm really pissed off he was so rude and i dont understand at all. yesterday he was nicer on my bday and told me to have a good time with my best friend who i went out with. i dont know what his deal is, maybe he feels guilty cause he didn't come back i dont know. please give me some insight. i want to talk to him about it but he's coming back tommorrow and i havnt seen him in over a week so i dont want us to be fighting when he comes back tommorrow. (he might also not come back that early either if he's that pissed). what should i do??? PLEASE HELP!!!!
guin_girl Posted December 31, 2006 Posted December 31, 2006 Might just be his last boys night.... I know my date canceled on me this morning, telling me New Year's isn't all that important and to just treat it like any other day. If I were you, I would just go on with my plans for the night and let him call you later...
Author Lauriebell82 Posted January 1, 2007 Author Posted January 1, 2007 yeah well i know he wants to hang out with his friends from home, because he only sees them once every 6 months maybe, and he sees me all the time. it just pisses me off that he was so rude to me, especially on new years eve since he cant be with me. i understand why he cant but i at least wanted to talk to him if i couldnt be with him so i'm disapointed and angry that he wasnt nicer about it. do all men act this way on NYE?
guin_girl Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Well mine wasn't so much rude when he told me, it was just matter of fact... in fact his direct statement was "it is what it is"... which ticked me off too!!
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