goodguy123 Posted December 31, 2006 Posted December 31, 2006 So me and my girl broke up about 4 months ago after a year and a half, but she still will message or call me about once a week. And she also said alot when we first broke up that she thought we would be back together again someday. I also think she is with someone else now, but I miss her so much. Is it a mistake for me to still tell her I miss her after 4 months? And keep in mind that she will contact me, I never call or text her anymore. I also have a feeling she will text me tonight since its new years eve.
gfto Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Is it a mistake for me to still tell her I miss her after 4 months? Yes. She dumped you. Why are you even answering her calls and texts?
jusified Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 ok niceguy doing all this stuff isn't been nice. It's been a wuss. If you are a nice guy then let her be and let her learn while moving on with your life. Been nice don;t mean you gotta chase after her and buy things to bribe her back. Been nice is moving on for yourself, improving and let her do her own thing because its what she wants. When you get into your next relationship treat the girl well and keep things fun and excitin, thats what been nice is. Stop contacting her, she don't want you to and neither do you. She probably won;t contact you and even if she does stop talking to her, she left you!!!
Author goodguy123 Posted January 1, 2007 Author Posted January 1, 2007 I guess you didn't really read my post, because I said I don't contact her at all, and that she contacts me about once a week. And I never said I buy her stuff. All I said was should I say I miss you.
jusified Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 I'm sorry about that, I read the post as she is still contact you and you are responding to it and just recently stop contacting her. I was using buy stuff to get them back as an example. Well why do you feel like you miss her if she left you to be with someone else. I understand you might miss the relationship, the support and other things, but don't see why you should miss her as a person. Well if you are not contacting her and not responding to her then its a good thing and keep it up, just work on you self and move on. I mean if she's seeing someone else, thats if, its not fair on him for her to continueosly contacting you (you don't want to be with some one like that anyways). to answer the thread, no don't tell her because you will get over it soon.
timo Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 Yes. She dumped you. Why are you even answering her calls and texts? look man u know that she is with other man right now dun talk to her be patient for a week and when she talks to you talk about something like i knew a new group and a new girl she is like you she is cute n this stuff and she asked you for a relationship but you refused make her feel jelouse step by step and dont talk with her about your relationship till she talks first and about she called you she is confused she dont know who she wants when you are patient may she will know that tou are not young she will be more confused
jusified Posted January 2, 2007 Posted January 2, 2007 he shouldn't because by the sound of it she broke up with him. She would already know he might miss her so telling her isn't going to helf him. She wouldn't care if his missig him other then for an ego thing because if she cared they wouldn't have broken up in the first place.
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