Kelso Posted December 31, 2006 Posted December 31, 2006 Well everyone, I have decided that I'm fed up with my own problems and my only solutions is to let other peoples feelings outweigh my own feelings. That's how I'm gonna forget all about my ex No seriously, this problem really isn't mine - it's more like a friend of mines. I broke up with my ex 2,5 months ago and didn't get a lot of support from him, mostly because he didn't know what to say. Now he is in kind of same place as I am. Loving someone he can't get.he can't get). The things is that he met this girl 2 years ago and they were working together. He really liked her and they had sex few times, just casual nothing serious from her point of view. Then she slept with other friend of mine - but my friend doesn't know about that. Now, when he hadn't heard anything about this girl for few months they're meeting at clubs and texting and stuff. I know for fact that she doesn't want a relationship with him, but he told me last week while drunk that he loved her so much. She's definetly just after the sex. How can I help him realize that this girl is a damaged good and there would be no future in a potential relationship with her. A girl who sleeps with a guy who is in love with her and then jumps into bed with his friend obviously isn't worth it. How can I make him realize that he needs to move on and forget about this girl. I can't stand watching him getting all excited when I gets texts and calls from her ... knowing that she doesn't want anything more than just sex. :S
AriaIncognito Posted December 31, 2006 Posted December 31, 2006 To be honest, Kelso, I think you have to let her tell your friend that she's not looking for something serious. It's not really your place, as a third party observer, to be telling him how she feels. It sucks, but it's basically a mistake that he will need to make on his own and learn from.
FallenTree Posted December 31, 2006 Posted December 31, 2006 You cannot really make someone realize anything...which is hard after listening to these things. I've a friend with somewhat of a similar situation.
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