beachangel4 Posted December 31, 2006 Posted December 31, 2006 I am new to this board. Happy Saturday night! : ) I am posting about this guy I met last Thursday night (a few days before Xmas). I must provide some background info on me first. I am VERY level-headed and do not get hung up on guys I just meet. But I am so hung up on this guy that I met once! I have no idea why he is affecting me so much that I am posting messages about him already? HAHA, at least I still have my sense of humor about it. OK, so back to my situation... I met this guy last week at Happy Hour. I wound up talking to him for about 5 hours. We totally hit it off. He was with his dad and a few of this friends/co-workers. They stopped by HH after their company Xmas party (his dad owns the business). I know you will lecture and say "you were at a bar with him for 5 hours drinking of course you hit it off." It was not like that at all. As far as I saw, he did not drink that much, and neither did I. We talked about everything. The conversation flowed and we made plans for a date. He occasionally gave his friends the "thumbs up" sign when they thought I was not looking. His dad kept saying that he really liked me too. I felt so at home with him and his dad, that I felt like I knew him forever. I just really felt something good with this one, it was much different than any guy I ever met before. When we went to dance, he said he needed to make sure we exchanged numbers because he really wanted to get in touch with me. We both were very excited about dinner, at least he seemed it! Usually I am good at reading guys and his excitement and interest seemed genuine. At one point, I danced with his dad! When I came back, he was not around. I got worried that maybe he found another girl, and my friend whispered in my ear that he told her to make sure I knew he was just in the bathroom. I thought that was cute. : ) So at the end of the night, he walked me to the car and gave me a hug. He said "Ill call you and we'll go to dinner next week." He started to walk away and then all of a sudden turned around and said "I'm sorry, I just have to kiss you on the cheek." It was so cute! So you know where this is going... he didn't call. Normally i would say screw it. I meet my fair share of seemingly nice guys who never call. But for some reason I am hung up on this one. I never get like this! Normally I say if a guy is interested, he will call within 2-3 days. It has been over a week now. I am very discouraged and very bummed. My friends say I am expecting too much. They say people are busy with the holidays and it is unrealistic for me to expect him to call until after New Years. What do you think? He said he'd call and we'd go out "next week." I guess I assumed he meant this weekend. They say this weekend is still a big holiday party weekend and I shouldn't expect him to make plans with me until after everything is back to normal. I should also mention that I called him a few days ago and left a VM, but I have not heard back. But they still insist that I should give him until next week. What do you all think?
alphamale Posted December 31, 2006 Posted December 31, 2006 you should give him until next week and then if you hear nothing then write him off...
JLO22 Posted January 1, 2007 Posted January 1, 2007 No you should go pass HH again and see if you see him then speak and see how it goes from the second time around... If you still fell the same connection as b4 then joke around and say "when are we going on this date?" See what kind of response you get..... Maybe he lost your number do you have his? DONT call until you see if you can get up with him at HH. Or call him if no response leave a message, if he dont get back to you, wait until middle of Feb then go to HH and see if you see him, you prob will because his dad own the business.... Then spark a conversation and if that dont work then THE HELL WITH HIM MY FIREND!!!
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