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My girlfriend wants me out of the country


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This is my story, I met this girl online over a year ago, she's from Stockholm and i was iving in Chicago at that time, so we talked for a couple of months then finally on january 2006 she visited me in Chicago, we were in love. then she visited me again in March and we decided that we wanted to be together and I would move to Stockholm, so 4 months later after paying all my debts and saving some money I quit my job and flew back to Mexico City where I'm originally from and she joined me a couple of weeks later. We had such a good time over there.

 

I didn't apply for my swedish residence then (that was in august 2006) because she thought being apart for 6 months was too long so we planned for me to come here for about three months and then in january we'd go to Spain and wait together for my Sedish residence permit together and then come back here. Well, to make it short the plans changed like 5 times in 3 weeks after I got here, so they ended up of me going alone to Barcelona and wait there for the swedish residence, I thought that was the best idea because that way I could visit her here in Stockholm, but the she told me she didn't feel in love with me anymore, not the way she did 3 months ago but she still loves me, so I decided to go back to Mexico City were at least I have friends and family.

 

And I've been trying so hard to please her but I just can't do it and today I wrote her a funny email and she said she had seen it so I went to the computer to see her response and internet explorer was open so I went to myspace and she was logged in so I thought instead of logging out and logging back in I could just look at her sent email and there it was, an email to this guy. He emailed her saying that she was hot and he hoped she had a bad relationship with her boyfriend (me) so they could be together and get drunk and have fun in new years eve and her answer was that his email was so cute and things weren't going good between us and she wanted her single life and bed back and he should fly to Stockholm for new years eve.

 

I had never felt so bad in my life, I went and told her I'd seen that and then I walked out of the apartment and just sat on the curb for a while, then come back and she as waiting outside the apartment. We talked and she said it was just a little flirting and she didn;t even like the guy who she had just met. She made me feel better but I'm still leaving for at least 6 months and I'm afraid I will lose her and I don't want that. I just wanna come back to Stockholm and be with her.

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My advice: get out now. Nothing but heartbreak in store. You already know this in your heart, just haven't come to terms with it yet.

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