Krying Posted December 30, 2006 Posted December 30, 2006 Well after some close dear friends staged a sit down and spoke with me, I have to say I am feeling fantastic. My friends where concerned with how I had been since my ex left me. Life has a better outlook, I now see the light at the end of the tunnel. That doesn't mean my pain has totally gone. But it will go and I will find someone else. As far as my ex goes, turns out she isn't pregnant. I know some of my friends meant well after the breakup, but clearly they had bad info. A good friend whose wife works with my ex, told me they were sick of both of them. The guy is a compulsive liar and lies about even small things to people. My ex and her guy keep texting/calling each other every 5mins, and my friends wife was basically over it lol. It sounds like they are in love of course, but it hit me that it also could be a super insecurity complex thing going on. You know checking in with your SO every few minutes is kind of cute and romantic, but it's got to be bordering on obsessive compulsive after awhile. Maybe it's the fear one will leave the other. She left him previously, and he was never that committed with her. They also told me she didn't look happy, was always tired and looked "spent" basically. Her parents are not even aware she is married. I'm not really suprised by this. They are legally married. I think they are going to have "wedding" at the parents place next summer. Anyway, here's hoping next year ends up being better than this one. I'm ready to leave it behind
SomethingSpecial Posted December 31, 2006 Posted December 31, 2006 Great that you're feeling like it's time to move on! I know all of this happening so fast was probably pretty hard on you so don't feel bad if it takes you a while to feel like getting back out there. Hope the new year is a lot brighter for us!
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