morephine Posted December 30, 2006 Posted December 30, 2006 Hey everyone, I've gotten some sound advice from you guys in my other thread and a new type of problem has arisen that I'm looking for insight with. Keep in mind that I'm adhering to the advice given so far and that I'm trying not to overanalyze the situation. My wife has been very adamant about she wants things to end at times and then confused at others but the answer usually comes out the same with no she doesn't want things. This brought me to a critical juncture last night while I was talking with her. I told her that if she really wants all of that then why not just file and get it out of the way when we get income taxes. Also, I said that if she wanted, I would just leave her alone completely. Her responses to this were that divorce was the last thing on her mind right now and that she doesn't want me to leave her alone just to stop with the drama over her "friend," over us, etc. I'm not really sure as to what to make of this as to whether she's just trying to keep me around in case this "friend" doesn't work out or if she's genuinely unsure if this is something she really wants or what. I know that individual cases are different but I'm looking for people to give some insight to all of this. Like I said, I want to work on our marriage but I've already started making some things that I won't stand for and being second is one of them.
norajane Posted December 30, 2006 Posted December 30, 2006 I haven't read your other threads, so I don't know anything about your situation. However, if she's confused and you're confused, marriage counseling sounds like a good bet to help you talk things through productively and discover what you both really want.
LakesideDream Posted December 30, 2006 Posted December 30, 2006 I don't get this one either. If you wife has a "friend", why would you even consider living in the same house with her? Are you really that weak? You must lack any shread of self esteem. All you are now is a way to get the bills paid, and food on the table. You are the ultimate "back up guy". Her you are doing all the things needed to keep a household going, and your wife is being penetrated by another man. Get a grip sports fan!
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