Lovely78 Posted December 30, 2006 Posted December 30, 2006 hey everyone im new and very happy i found a place like this...... yay! well anyways heres my situation, please help me decode him I have a myspace profile and this guy had been contacting me like crazy for months, i was really busy and into another guy at the time, so i rarely responded and usually kept it breif. I liked his pictures and thought he was hot but i didnt know him yet so i may have came off slightly aloof... well anyways finally i have some time off from work and hes contacting again to ask me to coffee. i went at 6pm to meet him at star funks haha convo was great, he was cute, and we decided to take it to his pad. That evening we basically talked and kissed, but the one thing that worried me is that he couldnt keep his hands off me.... i was wondering if his intentions are good you know? well i went home and he called the next day to hang again, and i wanted to, so i did. he waited all nite for me because i was busy though. got to his pad, we chilled out and he was allover me again... we made ou a bit and he was pleasing me all nite.... i liked him and was attracted to him, but i was kinda worried as to why he keeps his hands on me 24 7. is that a good sign or bad sign for men???? anyways he told me to call him after so i did, then he called me a couple days later to ask me some silly question in reference to what we were talking about the first night we met. he says really cute things and he is charming but how do i know if its an act to get laid??? ... basically can anyone help me decipher his real inentions. thankyou
Author Lovely78 Posted December 30, 2006 Author Posted December 30, 2006 i know he wants sex ... that was obvious of course but how do i know if he likes me as well as wants sex versus just wanting sex only?
IpAncA Posted December 30, 2006 Posted December 30, 2006 Well to me it sounds like thats all he wants at the moment. I mean he keeps calling and he can't keep his hands off of you. The only thing that I would do is try to get to know him better or come right out and ask him what he wants to happen in terms of a relationship or not.
Poboy Posted December 30, 2006 Posted December 30, 2006 if you land up at his pad after every date , what else you expect him to do ... watch paint dry and go to sleep on the couch you are leading him on ... next time , when he asks you to come to his place , tell him on the lines of that you are confused about where you two are going with this ... his reply will give it off whats his intentions
LN99 Posted December 30, 2006 Posted December 30, 2006 Do you want a way to see if he is interested in more then just sex with you? Try seeing what his reaction is by holding off with sex for awhile and just spend a few weeks getting to know him. If he wants only sex, he won't stick around. If he actually likes you, then he will respect that fact that you want to get to know him a bit better.
BlueEyedSarah Posted January 2, 2007 Posted January 2, 2007 Do you want a way to see if he is interested in more then just sex with you? Try seeing what his reaction is by holding off with sex for awhile and just spend a few weeks getting to know him. If he wants only sex, he won't stick around. If he actually likes you, then he will respect that fact that you want to get to know him a bit better. ^ I agree with this post
MikeC Posted January 2, 2007 Posted January 2, 2007 This is real simple. Tell him that you would like to keep physical contact at bay for awhile and check his reaction. If a guy is all about sex and you tell him this, you will most likely notice an obvious change in his behavior. As in, ignoring you.
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