Vermillion Posted December 30, 2006 Posted December 30, 2006 So I’ve been seeing this guy for a little while. Things were going very well, or at least it seemed that way. Last week we had the “exclusive” talk, he brought it up… he said he wanted it to be official. So it was agreed that we were together, no longer just hanging out or what not. Now I’m getting the brush off, no explanation… and I just don’t get it He was supposed to come over last night. Told me he’d call me at a certain time when he was done with his business. That time rolls around, no call. I try him, he doesn’t answer his phone. Try him a couple more times throughout the night, leave a message asking what’s up… nothing. I'm 99% sure that he was home, with access to his phone or computer, so he would have been able to reach me somehow if something came up... So, I'm feeling pretty positive that he's blowing me off here without the decency to tell me what's up. I don't understand. Why does this happen? How can a guy go from so in to you, and wanting to be with you, to... this? No warning. I am sure he hasn't met someone else. So what else could it be?
Curmudgeon Posted December 30, 2006 Posted December 30, 2006 One of the great mysteries of dating I suppose. Barring the unforseen such as a serious accident requiring hospitalization or rushing off unexpectedly to attend to a seriously ill relative, I'd say he's simply inconsiderate, or worse. For some men, getting there is all the fun and once you've arrived, it's time for another challenge. Of course, I suppose he could have merely fallen into a deep sleep. Bottom line - you won't really know until you ask him.
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