Eortic John Posted August 4, 2002 Posted August 4, 2002 Hi, I need a little help because I'm a little confused about something. A while ago I met a girl who was a friend of my sister, and I never considered us to be anything more than aquantances. Well anyway eventually (after my sister inving her over a few times) we got to know each other a bit and found we have a few things in common. We are both quite shy when it comes to relationships and so on, I'm 21 and she's 18 so there's not a huge age difference. I like her personality and sense of humour a lot but I don't find her hugly attractive physically. Should this be a problem or am I simply attracted to her because I think there may be a chance of getting together with her while there is no-one else around? Anyway we chat on the internet regularly and she obviously likes chatting because otherwise I guess she wouldn't logon to MSN I think. We went to the cinema a while back just as friends and it was quite good but slightly awkward with the both of us being quite shy and since then we have continued chatting. We haven't been out since but I have told her I like her but I'm not sure if she got the message as I get no signals back or anything that will tell me her feelings towards me (at least none I can see). Since then I haven't had the courage to ask her out properly because I just cannot tell at all what she thinks. Do you guys have any advice to help me out? Thanks.
yes Posted August 4, 2002 Posted August 4, 2002 u say that ur not attracted to her... once sentence later u say u r attracted to her... which is it? if u'r attracted, ask her out properly. if u'r not, keep her as a friend. i dont see the big problem? -yes
velvet Posted August 5, 2002 Posted August 5, 2002 Don't play guessing games. She loves me, she loves me not? Ask her out! If you get rejected, you get rejected. No big deal! Have you talked to your sister about asking her out? Don't go through your sister, but you could nudge little details out of her, if possible.
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