lasan Posted January 4, 2007 Posted January 4, 2007 Lasan thanks for all the advice it is much appreciated! I am not always late but when I am I am about a few mins late no more than 5 but the new years day late was about an hour and a half so he called the cops I suppose it depends on where you live, but here the cops considered 20 minutes late sufficiently late enough to write a report on for court purposes. The judge in my spouses case told her that it was unacceptable to be that late. Of course she was in alot more trouble because aside of being late she wasn't bringing the children period for a while. (What she was doing was letting my spouse tell them he would pick them up, and then she would tell the children that he never showed and he didn't care about them. The judge didn't like that either.) So our judges patience had already been tried by this point and her laxity on these issues were gone. Protect yourself. Document everything. Always be on time. Do everything in writing if you can. A trick we learned for things in writing was time consuming but it helped my spouse. He would write a letter (generally his notice of intent to exercise visitation, also a lawyers advice), take it to the post office, get a certified mailing reciept, write the number on the letter, take the letter and photocopy it, go back to the post office, mail the letter certified mail. That way when we were in court we had a copy of ALL corespondence. She couldn't say she never got it, because she had to sign for it, she couldn't say something was different in the letter because he had the reciept and a copy of the letter with the number on it, and when she just ignored the certified mail...we got the letters back as proof she was just ignoring them. It was very useful in court.
Salicious Crumb Posted February 17, 2007 Posted February 17, 2007 ok I am so irritated and frustrated! First off NEVER date a marrried man never believe his lies! You knew he was married...dated him...but somehow thought he was not a liar?...LMFAO!!! Then you have the audacity to say his wife butts in...uh..hello...ITS HIS WIFE..you are nothing but a part-time lay. Sorry to put it so bluntly...but the truth is sometimes like that.
frannie Posted February 17, 2007 Posted February 17, 2007 uh..hello...ITS HIS WIFE..you are nothing but a part-time lay. Have you actually read the thread? She's not a 'part-time lay' because she isn't with him. She is in contact with him because of the child..? The questions are about child access arrangements, not how to be with a MM. In fact, she starts out by saying don't get involved with a MM. You keep proclaiming that you have no problem with people trying to get out of affairs, etc. etc. but how are your comments meant to help or support anyone in this thread?
LucreziaBorgia Posted February 17, 2007 Posted February 17, 2007 Moto, is there any chance that MM and his W are planning to sue for full custody? All this cop calling, and reducing of your child support might be part of a 'gathering of evidence' to have you declared an unfit parent or at the very least a plan to show the court that your baby will have a better, and more emotionally and financially stable life with MM and his W.
Salicious Crumb Posted February 17, 2007 Posted February 17, 2007 Have you actually read the thread? She's not a 'part-time lay' because she isn't with him. She is in contact with him because of the child..? The questions are about child access arrangements, not how to be with a MM. In fact, she starts out by saying don't get involved with a MM. You keep proclaiming that you have no problem with people trying to get out of affairs, etc. etc. but how are your comments meant to help or support anyone in this thread? Well if she truly is away from him..then my apologies...but I read where she implied that she still wants something there...not in this post, but another.
Blue Phoenix Posted February 18, 2007 Posted February 18, 2007 1st off why even have the baby?? I cant help but wonder if it was in some way to try and force him to leave his wife for you wich obvisely dident work and now you resent that some what. Its pretty clear you resent the fact that they are still togher and from what your makeing it sound like picking on poor inocent little you. I'm sorry but your not inocent you got your self into this situation in the 1st place by haveing a baby with a MM. The only inocent one in this is the poor child whos now being used in a twisted game of tug of war by his parents and every one else envolved. Eather grow up that goes for EVERY ONE ENVOLVED and learn how to get along. Or cut ties all togher and yes that means say good buy to the money as well. But look at it this way isent your sons mentil health and well being worth giveing up what ever money you may get??? Just cut your ties and move on. The calling the cops thing is just ridickulas and sad sorry to say..
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