Iron Monster Posted December 28, 2006 Posted December 28, 2006 Hello everybody, First of all I (18 in 3 weeks) have never used a board like this before and I hoped for the love of god that I shouldn't be forced to use it, but in the state I'm in it's the best way to 1: vent my frustrations and 2: get some objective advice. And I'm pretty sure I'll be able to satisfy both of my needs here, or atleast I sincerely hope it. I'll divise my post in 2 parts, part 1 will give you the information about how it got so far. part 2 will tell you about the problem itself, so be free to skip whatever you want. PART I: There's this girl (15) -there's always a girl- who I fell in love with, not just fell in love with but at first sight. That might not be strange for you guys, but for me it was a first. Anyhow we met at a play, she stared in it and the very first thing I said to my friend with whome I went was: 'Do you see that girl, isn't she the most prettiest thing you've ever seen'. The funny thing was that she thought the same about me hehe. We didn't meet that night, but that girl asked a friend of mine about me and told her she wanted to meet me and everything. That friend of mine was an ex of me so she kind of sabotaged the whole thing, but finally after a few months we did get together and had our first date. First date, blind date. We hadn't seen eachother for so long that I really was a blind date but from the second we saw eachother till the second we said goodbye we had a great time. Laughing, doing crazy, joking around,... She said she really really wanted to meet again and so we dit. Second date, we went to Borat great great time. Must be one of the funniest movies ever. We were to late for the last bus home, so she had to call her dad to pick her up haha. She wasn't too happy to disturb him with that, but she had no choice. Still didn't kiss. That night I suddenly woke up and wrote a poem...About the first time we met. I know freaky stuff . Love right? [EXAMS... didn't see eachother for over a month and kept in touch through sms and phone] Third date, after my last exam and also the day before her birthday. I hadn't seen her for so long. I had really missed her so I wanted to do something special. I bought her 15 roses, because she turned 15 the next day. She was very very happy with the gift and so was I. She also invited me to meet her family at a happening they were organising the next week and ofcourse I accepted. Anyhow she had to leave early cause she had to celebrate her birthday with her family that day (the next day she was going out with her girlfriends). That night I got an sms from her: 'I had the greatest time with you, your roses are the greatest present ever, too bad I had to go away so early...I wanted to really thank you xxxxx'. [On her birthday I send her my poem] 'The Happening', don't want to call this a date as it wasn't one haha. I got to meet her family and best friends and I got along with them really really great. Made alot of jokes and lots of fun with both her friends and family... She told me they were all crazy about me etc. So mission accomplished right? Fourth date, the surprise. This was the big surprise I was telling her about hehe. I had been planning this date since the exams as a kind of birthdaypresentthing and as an overall experience. She had no idea what we were going to do, although I had given her many hints. Anyhow we had to take the train . We sat next to eachother again just fooling around and a certain moment she put her head on my shoulder I put mine on her head... It was such a lovely moment. Simple but effective and most of all it was her move I didn't do anything. Anyhow then we arrived at the City where my date was going to happen. She was very anxious and I kept teasing her, lots of fun teasing women huh . Anyhow once we left the train we discoverd it was mighty cold. And I saw her shivering so I wanted to give me her jacket haha, but she didn't want her but embraced me. Again cute right? I put my arm around her shoulder and so we walked through the city... I was in heaven, really I was. The most beautiful woman I've ever seen standing there in my arms. Then we went to the surprise hehe a metalgig . Don't be afraid not freaky death metal, but poppy metal deliverd by Doro, the cuttiest woman in the metalscene and just as I though my girl was just as charmed by her as I was . Everytime it was dark she took my hand hahaha, she didn't trust those metalheads... I can't really blame her, they look kind of freaky huh . Then the concert was over she came to me and gave me a huge hug. She was soooo happy and that makes me happy right. But we had lost the time out of sight and had to run like like crazy to catch our train haha. Seriously we runned like fools and we would have missed the damn thing if we had been like 7 second later hahaha. Anyhow when we arrived at our home town her parents where there and they wanted to bring me to my house . I like her parents and they like me so we had lots of fun in the car anyhow then finally we were at my house and we had to say goodbye, but overall I was VERY happy with this date really. But then but then... PART II: Big Problem That same night at 2AM she sends me an SMS. A huge message, really the biggest sms I've ever seen in my life. She tells me how great I am, how sweet I am, how intelligent I am,... At that moment I already thought: 'NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO'. And yes it seemed I wasn't wrong to be scared, cause she finally says she used to be in love with me, but then there were the exams...And she would like us to be the bestest of friends and everything blablabla. What the ****!!!! She was the one who hugged me, who wanted me to meet her family, who wanted me to meet her friends (who both loved me, as she told me herself)... We had our best date ever and then she sends me this... Maybe it's because of my 'manly' brain, but I don't understand any of this I really don't. Any tips are welcome. Greetings IM
westernxer Posted December 28, 2006 Posted December 28, 2006 We had our best date ever and then she sends me this... Maybe it's because of my 'manly' brain Maybe it's because she's 15.
Author Iron Monster Posted December 28, 2006 Author Posted December 28, 2006 Maybe it's because she's 15. Could you be more specific please?
westernxer Posted December 28, 2006 Posted December 28, 2006 They don't know what they want at that age. Date someone your own age, someone who isn't into boy bands or Marie Kate and Ashley.
Author Iron Monster Posted January 2, 2007 Author Posted January 2, 2007 They don't know what they want at that age. Date someone your own age, someone who isn't into boy bands or Marie Kate and Ashley. Haha, some people seem to have a problem with the fact that in some rare cases age is indeed 'just' a number. Anyhow she send me an sms the other day that she loves me soooo much and wants to see me again as soon as possible, so it's a fact that she doesn't know what she wants...But then again isn't that a womanly thing to do . Remember the famous quote from Vergilius: VARIUM ET MUTABILE FEMINA SEMPER EST (Something everchanging and uncertain is a woman always). Anyhow we'll be dating this friday so wish me the best of luck as I wish you all the best for 2007.
BlueEyedSarah Posted January 2, 2007 Posted January 2, 2007 Your almost 18 and she is 15, I think it will be best if you hold a relationship off with her until she is 18 because it is illegal. You could be done for rape and could get locked up in jail.
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