EBL Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 Ok, so here's my dilemma. I've been dating a guy for three months now and things are moving pretty fast. We talk to each other every day, email each other more than a dozen times a day, plus we text one another on the phone constantly. We live an hour away from each other and because of work schedules only meet once a week, sometime once every two weeks depending on traveling schedules. Lately, we've been expressing how much we care for each other; he even told me he's fallen for me, but here's the problem.....he is still friends with his ex and I question his relationship with her. He tells me she has no family in town and makes very little money so he tries to help her. She comes around during week, or when I'm not around. He's even had the audacity to tell me she's spent the night....in his bed!!!! He swears they are just friends and that he has no romantic feelings for her, but he also tells me she is still in love with him. I mean, what am I to think!!! This situation is more than awkward, right? I've developed strong feelings for this man, but I don't want to put up with ex. He's told me that if we decided to become serious and a live-in couple, he'd ask her to leave him alone. I honestly don't think she's going to walk out of his life just because he says he's in love with me. She knows about me and hates me! Please advise, thank you!
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