PollyPocket Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 My husband brought home a blanket. He didnt say a word about it. he put it on his favorite chair and there it sits. I have a feeling this came from HER. How do I know for sure?
GreenEyedLady Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 You won't really ever know for sure unless someone that you know claims to have bought it for him...my first impulse was to say "ask him" but you probably wouldn't believe what he said anyway...
Freedom Now Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 Ask him simply where he got it from. You are married to him so you know the nuances of his body language. Watch his behavior. Can you tell if he is lying?
herenow Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 Ask him simply where he got it from. You are married to him so you know the nuances of his body language. Watch his behavior. Can you tell if he is lying? I agree, body language is the best way to tell if he's lying. Hi Freedom Now, how was your holiday?
Author PollyPocket Posted December 27, 2006 Author Posted December 27, 2006 He seems pretty protective of it. I asked him a while back if she was still around. I also said to him you wouldnt tell me if she was. The answer I got back was NO
GreenEyedLady Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 He seems pretty protective of it. I asked him a while back if she was still around. I also said to him you wouldnt tell me if she was. The answer I got back was NO No, he wouldn't tell you or no she's not around...
Author PollyPocket Posted December 27, 2006 Author Posted December 27, 2006 No, he wouldn't tell you or no she's not around... No he wouldnt tell me. When I said you wouldnt tell me anyway and he said NO he just walked out of the kitchen
GreenEyedLady Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 Polly, are you guys in counseling? Has he ended it with her? I'm very tempted to say what he is doing is abuse because he's like torturing you with it...
Author PollyPocket Posted December 27, 2006 Author Posted December 27, 2006 Polly, are you guys in counseling? Has he ended it with her? I'm very tempted to say what he is doing is abuse because he's like torturing you with it... No counseling. Our marriage has been basically over. We only go on for the kids. He sleeps mainly on the sofa when he is home.
GreenEyedLady Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 No counseling. Our marriage has been basically over. We only go on for the kids. He sleeps mainly on the sofa when he is home. I am so sorry...how old are your kids? I know that you have to do what you feel is best, but you really deserve more...
Freedom Now Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 I agree, body language is the best way to tell if he's lying. Hi Freedom Now, how was your holiday? It was very nice, thank you. Hope yours was wonderful too!
Author PollyPocket Posted December 27, 2006 Author Posted December 27, 2006 I am so sorry...how old are your kids? I know that you have to do what you feel is best, but you really deserve more... Early teens. Just coming into their own. They deserve what is best right now
Guest Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 Here's an idea, and it's not terribly nice but now he's not being nice either. How a bout put it on the floor and give the kids something messy like watermelon to sit on it and eat. When it's a complete mess you might have to throw it out. See how he responds.
GreenEyedLady Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 Early teens. Just coming into their own. They deserve what is best right now I know that you think this is the best situation for them, so I'll only say this and I won't say anymore: they see that dad is on the couch and treating mom VERY badly...and mom, while coping, is miserable...how they see R as normal now, will follow them... Best of luck to you Polly...
noforgiveness Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 hmmm kind of funny. This sounds like yousaveme's mm's wife. Maybe you should do a search on yousaveme's posts. hmmm Oh and if your marriage is over and you are in it for the kids then why do you even care if the blanket is from her? Kids need to see loving relationships. You are not doing them any good at all.
yousaveme Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 Are you seriously sending some woman after me? WTF is your problem? I havent even been on here much at all. I was just told about this.
peacelove Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 Just shred it up or burn it. Get rid of it if it bothers you so much.
noforgiveness Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 Are you seriously sending some woman after me? WTF is your problem? I havent even been on here much at all. I was just told about this. :laugh: sending some woman after you? Umm no not at all. Just said the story sounded similar and maybe she should read your posts. Why is there a reason someone would be AFTER YOU? Have you done something you should not be doing? You didn't give your married man a blanket now did you?
Romeo Must Die Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 Nah, if the blanket is met with foul play he will know our dear Miss Polly is responsible and make life difficult for her, perhaps take her belongings and do away with them. The answer here is in the Kool Aid. A light dusting in a similar color as the blanket will make WS sweat in technicolor.
yousaveme Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 whatever i have done it was the right thing for me and him
peacelove Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 Hey, yousaveme, that's a really nice blanket. Thank you!
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