No one else even looks good

[David72]

If you can't guess from the title, I am totaly hung up on one girl. We're pretty good friends. She doesn't like me as more than a friend, I'm also mostly sure she has no idea I like her. Etc, you've heard this 1000 times. Even I've heard it 1000 times.

 

The main thing that makes this any different is that I am completely annoyed by most girls. Around 99% of girls I find unbearably irritating.

 

I've known this girl for around 15 months, and since I've known her I've only even looked at one other girl. And I only looked at her for a very short while.

 

Telling her right out will not work because it is the most guarenteed thing since the two-headed nickle(that she doesn't like me that way). I don't want anyone's answer to be "move on if she doesn't like you" I want more of an explanation. I feel there must be something I haven't heard about or tried yet. I am wide open to any suggestions you have. Thanks.

[BlueEyedSarah]

She doesn't like me as more than a friend

There is the answer to your question...

 

I don't want anyone's answer to be "move on if she doesn't like you" I want more of an explanation.

Unfortunatly this is what people are going to be saying for you to do, because it is what is best to do. If she does not feel the same then you can not get with her.

 

If its too difficult for you to get over her then the best thing to do is not be her friend any more.

 

Wont it be hard on you if she gets a boyfriend?

 

If you dont want to get over her and spend all your life dwelling over you not having a chance then thats something you have to accept to live alone, if thats what you want to do.

[typical]

I am wide open to any suggestions you have

 

Which is, exactly? How to get her to like you and only you? Short of witchcraft and voodoo love spells, I am not certain.

[gfto]

Has she told you that she only sees you as a friend? Or, are you just assuming it? Have you ever asked her out?