Guest Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 what to do? My friend is married, he is not in love with his wife, he's not happy. Here I am struggling with my own feelings in my own marriage. Then the two of us hook up and of course we had sex 3 different times. It was great. But now what. my friend is still married, not happy, and I am well lets just say alone. I find myself wanting to be with him, however I do not see myself with him for long term. He is on the immature side, he makes me laugh and makes me feel good about myself, but I just dont see a future. I even told him to work things out with his wife, but he seems not to be interested. hmmmmm.. I am so confused. I wonder if having sex with my friend has ruined our friendship. man this sucks.
whichwayisup Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 I find myself wanting to be with him, however I do not see myself with him for long term Then end it now and walk away. Ofcourse if you continue to hangout with him he'll be with you...Why should he bother trying to fix his marriage when right now he's got two women in his life fulfilling all his needs? If you end it and walk away then maybe he can focus on his wife and fix things. End it and fccus on your own marriage.
GreenEyedLady Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 Are you still with your H? You say you are alone, what exactly does that mean... I think you are right that sex has pretty much killed the friendship under the circumstances...if you don't see a future what is the point?
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