Should I just forget about him?

[Jetlagged]

I don't know where to start so here it goes...There is this guy who has been obviously looking at me since May so its been going on forever seen him around town but then he started these intense looks...I was not really bothered and was in a different place in my life but months later I really made eye contact with him back and was hooked so when ever he saw me we just couldn't stop looking at each other and the whole world would disappear and it felt like it was just us and he saw through me...Very intense...He would never look away and I loved the way he looked at me...So it went on and on and in the last month or so it got very intense I smiled at him and then it became very crazy us smiling looking back but he never approached...He even came into the bar I was because he saw me when he walked past and just kept looking and smiling the whole time...Then I decided that's it nothing happens I am moving on but then I went to the supermarket standing at the till he walked past smiled and said hallo...We kept looking back at each other smiling...then a few days later I saw him in the supermarket and we started talking he was really nice and he said he has seen me around and asked allot of questions we said goodbye and he winked and said I will see you around and I said do you want to go for coffee sometime...It just came out I never did that before..So he smiled and said he would really love too...And he said wait I will give you my number and you can cal lme and we can arrange it...so I called and the conversation went well he asked loads of questions again and we arranged to meet...then the day before we were supposed to meet he sent me a text saying"Hey...I won't be able to make it tomorrow night things resurfaced with my ex GF and it changes where I am at in my head...I am really sorry for messing you about...I texted back Its okay don't worry about it I understand it happens...Have a good Christmas...It really sux there was definitly something there and it was electric when we saw each other now I will never have that coffee and I feel gutted I thought finally I will get to know him this guy who made my knees weak like no one before...What now?I need advice:(

[BlueEyedSarah]

I think the best thing to do is to move on. Learn from the experience that you asked a guy out for coffee...thats brave! . Next time you have this experience with another guy in town maybe you will ask him straight away instead of months...and who knows what will happen then.

You also didn't know this guy all that well yet, so its nothing you should get attached to so fast.

Just move on .