hugznkisses21 Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 As you know from my previous threads my bf lost his best friend to a suicide just before Halloween. I have done everything i can how him....im here for him he knows that i was by his side through everything...but i dont know what to do... I feel he cant even look at me...he is cold to me - the dynamic of the love and feeling we have are gone...its so sad cause we were so in love and i still know he loves me and i love him but this is so hard on us....we fight, and he is on edge and stuff alot....Christmas was hard we exchanged gifts and we glad we would be together for xmas but it was different....he is distant and didnt even look at me....we have talked and he told me he doesnt want to loose me and doesnt want a break...I KNOW that he is hurting and thats where this is all coming from but - im struggling with how this is effecting us and its only been six mths and its doesnt feel lovey, or anything it feels cold and distant and i cry alot about that....what does one do? i dont want to hurt him i cant talk to him cause he gets frustrated or whatever with everything - due to his many emotions....help me please?
Curmudgeon Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 Gently and supportively recommend that he gets some grief counseling. It could be a big help.
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