Taurian Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 About 4 months ago I started talking to a woman as a friend and it has grown into so much more. She had een dating a guy for a year or so, but he had never told her he loved her and he also said he didnt want a committed reationship. He lso had not touched her intimately in over a year, and told one of his friends that he just doesnt look at her sexually. She worked for him doing his paperwork for his buisness, but didnt go to his house for over a month. Well, he called cause he cant do his paprwork without her, and on her days off from her regular job she goes out of town to his house and stays for the night. She sys she doesnt want him, and its just getting away. She basically lives with me and tells me she loves me, and I do believe her. How long is long enough to deal with this? She says it just takes time, but he doesnt even know about me. She calls me when she is at his house and texts me all the time. How do I tell her Im sick of this without pushing her away?
johan Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 How do I tell her Im sick of this without pushing her away? Tell her you don't want to push her away, but you're sick of it. What else can you say? Tell her what you actually want. If she can't provide that, then at least you made yourself clear.
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