OCCDAVE Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 Ok i met this girl 4 months ago and it started as a LTR and all went well.She lived about 45 miles away from me so i would make the 2 hour train ride to her place every week at least once.We both agreed we were very happy with each other and it would never end.I said from the start if it did end it wouldn't be cause of me and she said don't worry we're never breaking up.Fast forward to the past week and a half she's not picking up her phone.I figure it was one of her mood swings cause she's done it before.I called her cell last night only to have a guy pick up saying it's over for you two.Now once again i have been cheated on ugh i feel so crushed right now.
alphamale Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 I will refer you to Alpha's Guide To Keeping Women around....read it. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t61606/
Ariadne Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 Oh no! (Well, at least you won't have to do that train ride again...) Ariadne
perspektiv Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 damn dude...I would have taken the train ride one more time just to shove that phone down his throat. Seriously though, I feel for you. I too recently ended a LDR, then rekindled, then ended, then rekindled, then, well I have no idea whats going on now... My relationship didn't go bad to that extent, but at least you have one big thing that I dont...Closure. Complete closure. Never go back to someone that cheats. I almost wish that upon myself then what I am going through now. Right now I have fallen to a point where I am in limbo, and its so much worse then having a sure shot answer. Heres my thread of my situation if you have time: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t106859/
computerguy9355 Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 just get over with it she is not worth your time if they screw you, screw them back. after all, they are humans like us. so why should we treat them any different? for sex? you can go to strip club for that women are way overrated for today's society
Trialbyfire Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 That's terrible. What a way to break up with you. Consider her a loser and a coward for not having the guts to tell her yourself. You're better off without someone of this nature.
Guest Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 huh? people are allowed to break up with others anyway they want to - if my ex gf decided she liked another more than me - that's life - cheating makes no difference - what is important is that they love someone else - cheating doesn't bother me - all that says is the love someone more - who cares what happened. most people miss the real point - they found someone else you don't own people - they make their own choices that's why it hurt more that my ex gf left rather than why make sense?
whispervale Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 That's terrible. What a way to break up with you. Consider her a loser and a coward for not having the guts to tell her yourself. You're better off without someone of this nature. Completely agreed. She sounds like someone you don't want to waste your time with. Fortunately, this means you can look forward to someone else who will take your commitment seriously!
Author OCCDAVE Posted December 28, 2006 Author Posted December 28, 2006 Well get this everyone she gives me a call the other night cause i guess the guy she was dating just wanted some booty and dumped her.I said don't you think you owe me some answers to what happened and she said you know what i don't wanna fight i said who's fight if this was you then you would expect some info.*sigh* Funny how karma has a way of working i treated her like a queen now the first guy she meets dumps her after he gets some.Anyway do i give her another chance cause that one saying once a cheater always a cheater has me thinking twice.
notmakingsense Posted December 28, 2006 Posted December 28, 2006 If she cheated after only 4 months of being with you, I'd say that the deep attraction for her isn't there -- and you are just a back-up guy until she finds the next one.
Author OCCDAVE Posted December 28, 2006 Author Posted December 28, 2006 To be honest i would like to have her as a friend but this is the first time i can honestly say i wasn't to hurt over this whole thing.Dunno maybe i wasn't with her long enough but i'm honestly not sad i'm not with her.
daphne Posted December 29, 2006 Posted December 29, 2006 you were lucky enough to see karma in action. lol. This girl isn't a mature or healthy person so why would you want to be friends? She acted like trash and so did the loser that used her. Let her stick to her own kind and find someone who's worth your time.
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