mellove Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 We met this past year while we were both stationed in Afghanistan. We were friends from the start(about 3 months until he moved to another base in AF) and tried to get to know one another the best we could, considering the circumstances. We couldn't let it be known that we were interested in one another or our careers could be damaged by that. Therefore, now that I'm home (since Dec 3), we've been getting to know eachother fairly well through messenger. He's told the feelings he had for me before I left and he's told me the feelings he has for me now. He said he's gotten to know so much about me that he feels as if he's falling in love with me. Honestly, I've thought about a future with him back here, in the "real world", and I can easilly see myself being completely happy with him. I absolutely adore him and care about him more than anything else.He asked me to be his girlfriend, and I accepted...but,feeling odd that he's asking me to be his girl on a messenger instead of person. Either way, its not like we don't know eachother in person... He asked me to drive to CA with him from Missouri in April, once he's back in country. He's talking about someday marrying me....actually, he said that if he knew I'd say yes, that he'd propose to me the moment he see's me again. Am I a fool to believe the sweet things he's telling me and telling me that I'd be taken care for the rest of my life...that he loves me more than life its self?? Or do you think he could be sincere about everything?
Guest Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 personally, i have just done the same thing. i have expressed all these things and the decision is now with her. i did so without expressing it as a 'life or death' situation or decision, i showed her who i am now, and how i believe and trust and respect whatever decision she makes. i have told her that as far as i can tell from what information i know, that i understand her point of view and that she should approach this without fear, and know that things are near as bleak as we sometimes think they are, and that sometimes the things we think others will think about us and our past, really are just in our own heads - and that when u see that love is a prize - it will surprise you when u discover all those worries were nothing but that.
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