I Dont Wanna Ruin It

[brownguy]

i really like this girl, i THINK she likes me too but im really not sure...

im in the 11th grade so is she

 

how can i find out how she feels about me with out ruining it

if i just tell her how i feel, and she doesnt feel the same way, it will ruin the friendship and the possible relationship in the future...

 

HHHELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Brian18]

what up bud? look, you're in 11th grade, there is no reason to rush anything. call her a few times and get a feel for things. if you feel like things are going well, and she's repsonding to what you're saying, ask her to hang out. organize something with a bunch of friends. go to a movie or rent one and watch it at your house with her and some friends. if she sits next to you, flirts with you, ect.. ask her to hang out alone. just try to get a better sense of what she's feeling/thinking and then make your move according to that. just don't rush things.

 

oorrr, you could just come out and ask her, but i probably wouldn't do that..you might scare her off.

 

be patient and read the signs (verbal and nonverbal). act on that. Good luck!

[brownguy]

what up bud? look, you're in 11th grade, there is no reason to rush anything. call her a few times and get a feel for things. if you feel like things are going well, and she's repsonding to what you're saying, ask her to hang out. organize something with a bunch of friends. go to a movie or rent one and watch it at your house with her and some friends. if she sits next to you, flirts with you, ect.. ask her to hang out alone. just try to get a better sense of what she's feeling/thinking and then make your move according to that. just don't rush things.

 

oorrr, you could just come out and ask her, but i probably wouldn't do that..you might scare her off.

 

be patient and read the signs (verbal and nonverbal). act on that. Good luck!

 

thanks i guess this helps me alittle bit...u need more advice from other people please