sassiex Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 this time of year is hard for us ow ! lonely and cold wel thats how i feel ! and its the second one............hows everyone coping xx:lmao:
scaredinlove Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 this time of year is hard for us ow ! lonely and cold wel thats how i feel ! and its the second one............hows everyone coping xx:lmao: don't feel like that. life is beautfull:)
Dadaal Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 don't feel like that. life is beautfull:) Go to the mall and hook up with someone...
Art_Critic Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 don't feel like that. life is beautfull:) I agree.. don't let another alter your happiness... There are millions of single available guys out there that won't make you feel this way.
alphamale Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 There are millions of single available guys out there that won't make you feel this way. you're forgetting, A_C, that some people subconcioulsy want to feel bad
kymberann Posted December 25, 2006 Posted December 25, 2006 Hey, I'm doing good! I know xMM is home miserable with his wife! I am sure he falls into the wanting to feel bad rather than change category! I don't even care if he is even thinking about me. Not my issue any more! It is all his to deal with!
whichwayisup Posted December 25, 2006 Posted December 25, 2006 Forget all about your MM over the next few days. Focus on your own family and good friends in your life. Those are the people who truely love you and will be in your life forever!
pureinheart Posted December 25, 2006 Posted December 25, 2006 this time of year is hard for us ow ! lonely and cold wel thats how i feel ! and its the second one............hows everyone coping xx:lmao: Hey sassi....sorry to hear your sad....a lot of people are, that is why there is so many suicides during this time of year. Me and my daughter went to my stepdads for Christmas Eve....very, very sad....he's 95 and I can tell he want to die....that was very hard tonight
pureinheart Posted December 25, 2006 Posted December 25, 2006 Hey, I'm doing good! I know xMM is home miserable with his wife! I am sure he falls into the wanting to feel bad rather than change category! I don't even care if he is even thinking about me. Not my issue any more! It is all his to deal with! LOL.....
ratingsguy Posted December 25, 2006 Posted December 25, 2006 The only thing that sucks more than Christmas Eve is Christmas Day. It's tough, but the pain won't last long for me thankfully. My MW is offically separated on Jan. 1. So I'll spend Christmas with family looking forward to 2007 with my MW.
frannie Posted December 25, 2006 Posted December 25, 2006 Don't be sad... think of all the great things in your life, like friends and family... even if it's just people you meet online who can wish you a happier time! HAPPY CHRISTMAS to all who read this! Next year is going to be even better
kymberann Posted December 25, 2006 Posted December 25, 2006 Well i thought i was doing good.... Woke up this AM missing MM. Wishing things had been different. I know these feelings go up and down, part of the process. I know he's home feeling what ever he has to feel. And yes there is a small part that wonders if he is thinking of me or over me. I know we vascilate with our feelings, the down side won't last long or at least I know by this time next year I know I won't be thinking of him like I am now. I know that I am happy because my kids are still in bed safe and warm and they will wake up and I will make them a Christmas breakfast. That's what matters now. I know I am also going for a good long hard run and burning off all the crap I ate yesterday! And that's what matters most!! Best!
GreenEyedLady Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 You know, mine really surprised me...but we spent Christmas Eve having dinner together and he showed up this morning and made me breakfast...although I never let on that I was surprised, but rather expected it...If they really want to, they find a way...
pureinheart Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 You know, mine really surprised me...but we spent Christmas Eve having dinner together and he showed up this morning and made me breakfast...although I never let on that I was surprised, but rather expected it...If they really want to, they find a way... Hey GEL... tell the truth..lol... Ex-MM had every minute of his day carefully calculated, no surprizes...it was horrible....that was very thoughtful of him to do that for you
GreenEyedLady Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 Yeah, I know...but I don't want him to think that I deserve any less or that I should be grateful for it...
pureinheart Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 Well i thought i was doing good.... Woke up this AM missing MM. Wishing things had been different. I know these feelings go up and down, part of the process. I know he's home feeling what ever he has to feel. And yes there is a small part that wonders if he is thinking of me or over me. I know we vascilate with our feelings, the down side won't last long or at least I know by this time next year I know I won't be thinking of him like I am now. I know where your coming from Kym...I was ok before all of the mess he recently put me through, and do believe that was the plan...to keep him on my mind....well it worked and I so hate to admit it.
sadbuttrue Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 you know, i think you are right, if they want to they will find a way. if you mean enough to them, they will do what they have to do to see you. but i feel that i will never be important enough to my MM because he still chooses wife and kids over me. he did email me today to tell me how much he missed me and thought about me over the holidays poor him.
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