GivingUp Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 My ex broke my heart. I will always try to win her heart again. Im young 23 but I am a good guy, the relationship couldn’t work because of the long distance and the love was fading because of it. We have been broken up for 3 months she has moved on , I think the feelings are still there that’s wheat my friends that know her say, but actions speak louder then words but the feelings aren’t strong enough to get back. I haven’t moved on until I do what I have to do. That she is leaving to go back to college in a few weeks I know her and it will never work out but I just want to do one thing to I say goodbye to her forever because I prefer not to know her and what she is doing then being her friend . I have plans to buy flowers for her lilies to be exact that is her favorite flower (I have friends that are sturdiest on the plan and during the flight my friend is going to give her the flowers and a note that says I will always love you good bye forever please, do not make any contact I don’t need anything ,thank you and I don’t need anything hope your life brings you a lot of happiness ( I am willing to push her further away) or that I am stupid or something to hurt me I have a good heart it has broke many times but I have always have healed throw time but I just want to do one last thing, I heard from her friend that she did not cry when we broke up that hurt cause I thought she cared after a year and a half and she lost the butterfly feelings as well. I want to do this so I can close that chapter in my life and start a new page, how would u guys feel if it had happened to u?
BannaBee57 Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 Don't send the flowers. If you don't want contact then there is no point. Honestly, if I got flowers and a message like that I would be pretty confused and might think less of you. I think you are hoping to get a reaction out of her or hurt her by taking away her option to ever contact you again. She's not going to read the card and cry...she might read it and laugh though, if she didn't even feel bad about the breakup. You can start a new page in your life without this last ditch attempt. I don't think it will make you feel better about anything. Good Luck!
Guest Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 wouldn't be nice if they had enuff self respect to at least do that - i mean, say goodbye, tell u what their plans were. it saddens me that people think so little of themselves that they cannot do so. two days ago i came face to face with my reality and saw for the first time her true colours - meaning how much hurt someone will inflict upon another who is simply showing love and could easily accept her answer - it is a terrifying experience to witness this in someone and come to an awareness that they could lie and falsely accuse u of deeds and make your existence miserable even with their knowledge [not told] that their plans have already been made and that they do not include u. i do not understand that. imagine for one moment that u knew your future was already planned, and all u had to do was communicate that and instead you leave but not before showing a side of yerself, and looking in the mirror, and seeing that darkness inside you, and just walking away without correcting anything. it lives me speechless in my understanding of her as a woman i once knew she knows that i would easily remove myself if simply spoken to but she has decided that silence and vindictive behavior that only really punishes her soul is the way to go - i accept that no worries about anything related to me or us anymore ok. i can do this and so can u. get healthy and enjoy yer new life. many adventures await u.
BannaBee57 Posted December 26, 2006 Posted December 26, 2006 wouldn't be nice if they had enuff self respect to at least do that - i mean, say goodbye, tell u what their plans were. it saddens me that people think so little of themselves that they cannot do so. Yes, but GivingUp was the dumpee. She has no right/doesn't care to know "what his plans are". He doesn't owe her anything at this point. I think he would feel a lot stronger in the long run if he just disappeared and went on to live a better life without her.
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