worst thing you have ever done?

[sweethonisti]

I am curious...I was in a relationship that I thought was "it" forever...needless to say he "wasn't that into me"...I ended it but went through the heartbreak and did some stupid...out of character things...almost a year later I still think about him but realize I have my own feelings back and some regrets of how I acted...

 

What are some things you have done after a break up? Please share...wondering if others have had this hindsight and wish they would have handled things better.

 

How did you deal with your heartache? What advice would you give someone in the middle of it and not seeing the life after "Mr. so perfect."?

 

If you would have been sane and emotionally sound what would you have done that you feel would have let you get over the break up more easily?

 

What were the circumstances for the break up?

 

What did you learn?

 

I have learned a lot....it is so easy to lose yourself in a relationship even when you are consciously aware of it...we can not always control our hearts but we can have a choice to how we react so we can get through it sooner and move on with our life....and hope we have learned from it and not become to jaded or scared to try it again.

 

Thanks all...experience through others is sometimes the best tool for learning....

[Love Hurts]

I immediately took a sick leave from life itself.

I screamed and cried.

I cried and screamed.

I snibbled and whimpered..

I sobbed and boo hoo hoo hooed.

I threw myself on the floor and pounded it with my fist.

I kicked the floor,

I stomped the floor.

I left myself go……

I didn’t bath.

I drank ...

I drank too much.

I yelled at God.

I yelled at the dog.

I let the dust collect and my hair go wild.

I looked like a crazy insane lunatic in the mirror, particularly when

I brushed my teeth.

I isolated myself from people…….that did not work; they came and found me (friends and family).

I told them to leave………but they wouldn’t

Or they kept coming back. Oh well.

So ok they would first sympathize or feel sorry for me..

Then they would laugh at me.

I wasn’t quite certain how to take them laughing at me….. and then

I laughed too.

Ha ………. Ha Ha………Ha ha ha ha aha ahaa ahha.

Then one day at a time

I began to rebalance.

I stopped forcing myself to smile at someone or something… and it became natural and genuine again.

I slowly got back on my feet and began to do all the things

I did before I lost love.

I got back to work……. that helps a lot…….

 

I took breaks from my pain and issues of life and focused on others … it’s a break to consider what another soul is going through as appose to being self-centered and slipping back into my desired pity party mood.

Finally given enough time………your more than well…….your better.

 

Look at all the I I I I I I I statements used to translate this.

The best advice ..............get your mind off of yourself.

[Rooster_DAR]

I immediately took a sick leave from life itself.

I screamed and cried.

I cried and screamed.

I snibbled and whimpered..

I sobbed and boo hoo hoo hooed.

I threw myself on the floor and pounded it with my fist.

I kicked the floor,

I stomped the floor.

I left myself go……

I didn’t bath.

I drank ...

I drank too much.

I yelled at God.

I yelled at the dog.

I let the dust collect and my hair go wild.

I looked like a crazy insane lunatic in the mirror, particularly when

I brushed my teeth.

I isolated myself from people…….that did not work; they came and found me (friends and family).

I told them to leave………but they wouldn’t

Or they kept coming back. Oh well.

So ok they would first sympathize or feel sorry for me..

Then they would laugh at me.

I wasn’t quite certain how to take them laughing at me….. and then

I laughed too.

Ha ………. Ha Ha………Ha ha ha ha aha ahaa ahha.

Then one day at a time

I began to rebalance.

I stopped forcing myself to smile at someone or something… and it became natural and genuine again.

I slowly got back on my feet and began to do all the things

I did before I lost love.

I got back to work……. that helps a lot…….

 

I took breaks from my pain and issues of life and focused on others … it’s a break to consider what another soul is going through as appose to being self-centered and slipping back into my desired pity party mood.

Finally given enough time………your more than well…….your better.

 

Look at all the I I I I I I I statements used to translate this.

The best advice ..............get your mind off of yourself.

 

:laugh: I think this pinpoints it all.

[Love Hurts]

:laugh: I think this pinpoints it all.

 

Lol... .... it is funny isn’t it Rooster.

It doesn’t feel funny when your in that

place … its a good thing to be able to look back

and laugh at it. :laugh: