Fallen for a great friend

[jimney]

Recently in the last couple of months i have fallen for a realy good friend of mine.

We get on soooo well and find that we can spend so much time in each others company and nver get sick of each other.

 

We would speak about the kind of people that we would like to be with and it feel sthat if she describes that im the kind of person that she would like to be with, but it for some reason not actually me. Even though everything she said pointed to me She has even at one point said that she would go out with me or any girl that would realy lucky to be with me

 

I got realy strong feelings for her a couple months ago andi in the end decided to tell her, but the response wasnt what i thought it would be. She said that she felt that there was something between us, but as we were going to university, she didnt feel she would like me enough or that she would be with me for the right reasons(as she broke up with her boyfriend a couple months ago). We are at very close university's and i so want to be with this girl.

 

I know she has had trouble with a couple of guys at uni with them not being with what she wants and she has even said that she feels stupid for not going for me.

 

This week was the first time to see her again and she was realy excited with seeing me.

 

I got to see her today and we seemed to get on very well. But i just dont know what to do with how she feels about me. She gave me lots of "looks" and we had loads of big hugs and crap and she said how great it was to see me, but i dont know what to do as i like her so much. Should i tell her anything again of how i feel or just sit it out?

 

Please help a guy deeply in love! lol

[BlueEyedSarah]

we can spend so much time in each others company and nver get sick of each other.

 

We would speak about the kind of people that we would like to be with and it feel sthat if she describes that im the kind of person that she would like to be with, but it for some reason not actually me. Even though everything she said pointed to me She has even at one point said that she would go out with me or any girl that would realy lucky to be with me

 

I got realy strong feelings for her a couple months ago andi in the end decided to tell her, but the response wasnt what i thought it would be. She said that she felt that there was something between us, but as we were going to university, she didnt feel she would like me enough or that she would be with me for the right reasons(as she broke up with her boyfriend a couple months ago).

You say she had just broke up with her boyfriend a few months ago and she thought it wouldn't be right to go into a relationship with you because she doesn't want your friendship ruined if she had you as a rebound guy. It was too soon for her to make a descision to have you as something more than a friendship.

 

I know she has had trouble with a couple of guys at uni with them not being with what she wants and she has even said that she feels stupid for not going for me.

!!!!!!

 

This week was the first time to see her again and she was realy excited with seeing me.

 

I got to see her today and we seemed to get on very well. But i just dont know what to do with how she feels about me. She gave me lots of "looks" and we had loads of big hugs and crap and she said how great it was to see me

 

Should i tell her anything again of how i feel or just sit it out?

No! Do not tell her how you feel!

 

I am not liking what I have read in your post...all that I have quoted shows she is giving you mixed signals. No wonder your so confused! She is pulling you around on a leesh and your just going along for the ride. She doesn't know what the heck she wants.

I am seeing red flag with this chick.

I think you should possibly detach yourself from this girl a little bit by seeing her less, see other friends, go out and see other girls.

[Poboy]

just stay friends with this woman if you can n want to ... dont ask her again...