Dadaal Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 Why blackmen date overweight white girls, is it because they are too rejected by the white men. I have a black friend who says that overweight white women are his favourites to date. I also see more often black men dating very model like white females in their early 20s or less.
NoIDidn't Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 Don't take this the wrong way, and definitely note that this is MY interpretation as given to me by a relative who does the aforementioned. Overweight any race women are sometimes likely to have self-esteem issues that any race man can use against them intimately. Basically put, they put up with more sH*t than their average weight, or just healthier self-esteem (because just because you are overweight doesn't mean one has low self-esteem) people would NOT put up with in a relationship. I could say more, but it really belongs in the "Sexual" section of the site than here. Since you started the threads about the race of those involved in the relationships that you are observing. What's going on that you are so concerned/bothered/curious?
Can'tGiveUp Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 I could say more, but it really belongs in the "Sexual" section of the site than here. Since you started the threads about the race of those involved in the relationships that you are observing. What's going on that you are so concerned/bothered/curious? And posted in the OM/OW forum? Is it relevant for here?
NoIDidn't Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 CGU, I am confused, were you directing the question to me or quoting me for the OP?
Can'tGiveUp Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 I was quoting you for the OP. Sorry for the confusion.
umbo Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 Black men date fat,skinny, small,tall, white, brown black women. Black men are educated and there are good ones as well as bad ones. Just like your race there are good people and bad people. I know there seems to be a lot of black men in jail or the media seems to portray black men as the worst possible criminal that walked the face of the earth. But just remember the media is trying to sell you shocking news. YOu may need to leave your state or city to find decent black men. Black men don't place a major emphasis on looking like a model to date in or outside there race. If you are thinking about dating one don't go any further than first base make sure he has good grades and is not a street pharmasict. BLACK MEN may feel angry at society for racism low employment, broken families but how the black man deals with these perceived pressures is something you should scrutinize. Good luck and be careful.
NoIDidn't Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 CGU, No prob. I think this should be moved as well, unless the black man in question is a MM. But that hasn't been revealed. umbo - very well said. Especially the part about scrutinizing how he handles his anger for the unfairness of the pressures faced. Very well said.
alphamale Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 i thought black men liked thick girls with some "back", regardless of race
lasan Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 *Reads question......blinks....laughs....walks away* 1
pureinheart Posted December 25, 2006 Posted December 25, 2006 Thinking it might be a matter of preference rather than race or gender...
bonehead Posted December 25, 2006 Posted December 25, 2006 *Reads question......blinks....laughs....walks away* Best reply yet!!!!!!
justagirliegirl Posted December 25, 2006 Posted December 25, 2006 Why blackmen date overweight white girls, is it because they are too rejected by the white men. I have a black friend who says that overweight white women are his favourites to date. I also see more often black men dating very model like white females in their early 20s or less. Believe it or not many men prefer women with curves to the bone thin heroin addict look.
kymberann Posted December 25, 2006 Posted December 25, 2006 I know there seems to be a lot of black men in jail or the media seems to portray black men as the worst possible criminal that walked the face of the earth. Actually the average jailee or prisonee or criminal is your average white guy between the ages of 25 and 35. May be even younger. Unfortunately the bone thin heroine look is making a come back. Hopefully not for long though. I think it is a matter of preference. However, just to tie this thread in with being an OW. XMM is Latino. Not "typical" Latin American. Educated, financially set, mannered and cultured. In fact when I started the A with him I was quit suprised at how bigoted he was even towards his own culture. He disliked "Mexicans" and illegal immigrants and always told me to be careful of Mexican men. Don't know if it was a jealousy issue or not. He knows much more about it than I. So I think it very much is a personal preference, I think for xmm it was also a bit of a novelty to be with a Caucasion who is fairly middle class with a full time job, educated and also cultured and well rounded. Something different than his W, that's for sure. Hey this baby got back and it seems to be workin fine for me!!
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