goodguy123 Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 Ok, so there's this beautiful girl who I've known for about 2 years, and I've even liked her when I was with my ex girlfriend of a year and a half. And she knows I like her, because I make comments all the time, and I've made her stupid little things that she actually still keeps in her car. And after me and my ex broke up, we started talking more and she actually ended up coming over late one night and slept over, but my stupid shyness overtook me and I never made a move. I know i'm an idiot, you don't have to tell me. Then she slept over another night and got real drunk and passed out and nothing happened. And ever since then we still talk a little bit, but not as much as we were before. Did I mess this up or is there still hope for this one? And how can I get her??!!??!!??!!
Curmudgeon Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 Define: "get her." Does that mean get into her panties or actually have an exclusive relationship with her? If the former, you've had your chances. If the latter, woo her.
JCD Posted December 24, 2006 Posted December 24, 2006 If I was in your shoes, I would stay away from a girl that gets drunk and passes out. Girl like that has no self worth and if she doesn't value her self/body then why would I value her? Unless you want sex with her but you will fall in love with her and her issues will drive you nuts.
overdosed Posted December 25, 2006 Posted December 25, 2006 I think she likes you and unfortunately, she's not the type who'll directly tell you that she does (maybe she's shy ... I don't know). So in the process she ends up doing ... well, of stupid things (such as getting drunk and passed out) to get her point across. I tell ya, sometimes you guys can be so frustrating . Give yourselves both a break, go ask her out. Please.
Author goodguy123 Posted December 25, 2006 Author Posted December 25, 2006 Well I would like to have a relationship with her, and I have asked her to dinner, but she always has an excuse. I seem to get a lot of mixed signals from her, but if anything I think I messed things up by not making a move. As for her passing out, we were both pretty drunk after we went out drinking all night with some friends.
overdosed Posted December 25, 2006 Posted December 25, 2006 You're the guy. Call the shots. Even with women's liberation, it's still nice that it will be the man who's gonna make the move. To heck with the mixed signals. I think on the very end of this, the answer to the million dollar question between the two of you is either YES or NO. Though it would be nice to get the GOOD results, the important thing is to get to ask the question itself. Unless you want to wonder all the time and torture yourself (or both of you). The opportunity is there ... grab it.
vanessabg Posted December 27, 2006 Posted December 27, 2006 Ok, so there's this beautiful girl who I've known for about 2 years, and I've even liked her when I was with my ex girlfriend of a year and a half. And she knows I like her, because I make comments all the time, and I've made her stupid little things that she actually still keeps in her car. And after me and my ex broke up, we started talking more and she actually ended up coming over late one night and slept over, but my stupid shyness overtook me and I never made a move. I know i'm an idiot, you don't have to tell me. Then she slept over another night and got real drunk and passed out and nothing happened. And ever since then we still talk a little bit, but not as much as we were before. Did I mess this up or is there still hope for this one? And how can I get her??!!??!!??!
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