Tormented Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 I know Christmas can be a painful time when your heart is broken and you're missing the one you love, but here's hoping we all find some joy in the season, even if just a little, and a much, MUCH happier New Year. I hope we ALL find love worthy of us in the New Year to come. Let it be with our exes, or with a new love who will set our world on fire. God knows we all deserve it! Cheers! ~T~
jusified Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 Thank you very much tormented. Same to everyone,X-mas love shack style baby.
Guest Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 I Wish Everyone The Same. I'm Done With 2006, That Was A Nightmare. 2007 Will Not Look Anything Like That. And Eventually Everyone Will Get Tired Of Their Playing - I Know This Because I Am Done With It Now And It Kinda Boring With Only One Playing. Trust Me - Lol So Merry Christmas To Everyone - And Have A Great New Year. And I Ask Kindly To Those I Thought Wanted To Share Things To Please Now Stop Prying Into Places And Things That Are Not Yours - Just Because They Were Once Given, Doesn't Mean U Can't Take Them Back. U Didn't Earn Them And Neither Did I To Give Them To U. Take Care And Stay Kewl Y'all
Author Tormented Posted December 23, 2006 Author Posted December 23, 2006 Justified...is that David Boreanaz on your avatar? If not, sure does look like him. Hope we all have a great Chrstmas...despite our exes! Just wish mine would stay out of sight so I can purge him from my mind and eventually my heart. So damn hard, ya know? ~T~
Author Tormented Posted December 23, 2006 Author Posted December 23, 2006 And I Ask Kindly To Those I Thought Wanted To Share Things To Please Now Stop Prying Into Places And Things That Are Not Yours - Just Because They Were Once Given, Doesn't Mean U Can't Take Them Back. U Didn't Earn Them And Neither Did I To Give Them To U. Um, Guess...Not exactly sure to whom you're addressing with the above statement, but I hope you have a great Christmas. ~T~
jusified Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 It is, I am a big Buffy and Angel fan. Talking about X-mas, my ex is on holidays as you all know and she sends group emails to her friends (some our mutual friends) and include me in it. She's sent group emails telling everyone how much fun shes had and now merry x-mas and how much fun she's having. Before she left she said she wanted to email and call me and stay friends..... I think she just don't get it that what she did really hurts me and I really don't want to hear from her LOL....group emails me like I'm another chump.
Author Tormented Posted December 23, 2006 Author Posted December 23, 2006 It is, I am a big Buffy and Angel fan. Me too! Never missed an episode on either show. I heard rumors that Joss was going to write a movie spinning from the last episode of Angel where the 4 left standing was now facing a myriad crowd of ghoolies (I loved Gunn's last line..."You take the 3,000 to the left, I'll take the 3,000 to the right). Great stuff! Hope there's some truth to the rumor. Talking about X-mas, my ex is on holidays as you all know and she sends group emails to her friends (some our mutual friends) and include me in it. She's sent group emails telling everyone how much fun shes had and now merry x-mas and how much fun she's having. Before she left she said she wanted to email and call me and stay friends..... I think she just don't get it that what she did really hurts me and I really don't want to hear from her LOL....group emails me like I'm another chump. Do they not get how hurtful (and insensitive) it is to expect us to humbly accept our place on their crappy "email buddy list?" Damn it, WE were suppose to be a special person in their lives, or, at least, we thought we were. I think NC is much better than this, "Ka-sera-sera...let's be buddies!" crap. In my case, he hasn't taken the "friends" route. He just continued to call and sit silently on the phone when I answered (I changed my number so that put an end to it), and makes sure he passes by me on my way to or from work (he's a log truck driver), and waves everytime he sees me. I don't wave back...I just keep driving like I don't see him. And the kicker to this? He moved his ex in 3 weeks after we split up and as far as I know, she's still living there. So, why he continues to call and wave is beyond me. People are strange... ~T~
jusified Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 well Joss is busy with his own stuff and all the other actors have moved on. The movie, mini series what ever they talk about has always been just talk for the past few years....I'm not keeping my hopes up. I've only ever shed one tear while watching tv/movies, thats when Wesley died and Ilundra (forgot her name) pretended to be normal one last time. Well shes the one that broke up with me so it makes things easier for her and especially if she kind have a thing for someone else and have them to talk too. The whole email thing really annoys me, I agree how can you not realise how much pain and suffering you put ppl through. Like she knows I was really good to her and for her to say "I dont love you like a bf anymore, I had fun on the weekend and pretneded i didnt have a bf...someone else clicked with me"... then among alot of other things... me having to cancel my travel plans last minute and lose alot of money...grrrrrrrr. SO many things I've been put throgh that make me realise how lucky I am to not have to put up with it anymore and I know when she gets older she will realise these things. But it doesn't mean I'm not still really hurt abot how things happened. Well my other thread about this "would she regret" a guest really posted something that made me feel good about the situation, especially about just been me, and been able to love someone. I'm really very close to getting over the whole thing, shes young and just need to mature about everything. I deserve someone better and just gonna be who I am. Your situation sounds fun..... well not really, it must be tough to have to see or get contact from him. Log truck driver sounds exciting, some guy are not worth it aye. Get ex to move in with him shows no respect.
Double D Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 To agree with one and all MERRY CHRISTMAS & A HAPPY NEW YEAR! Good ridance to 2006. Lets make a pact to positive thinking for 2007 and may someone awesome come into our lives. I so agree, ex's seem dont seem to realise the pain that people go through. I must admit I prefer NC to buddies. My ex and me tried this for 2 weeks after we broke up and it so didnt work, it was far to strange. Now we dont talk at all and even though I hurting over not having her in my life anymore. I would rather have NC than general chit chat and small talk. YUK! COME ON 2007!
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