MG324322 Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 Ok im not sure to begin...i met this girl at a bar a couple of weeks ago (yeah a bar cause there isnt much else here) Now when i first saw her i thought she was attractive and I basically just wanted a one nighter out of the deal...Im normally pretty good at doing this...so i introduced myself and didnt wind up going home with her. She found me on myspace and we started talking and i started to really be attracted to her cause of her personality..the next week when i saw her out we danced all night and then 2 days later went out to the movies together and just drove and talked afterwards and she acted like she really liked me..however the thing is when i actually like the girl i turn into this total nice guy so i became the nice guy without really even knowing it...now the night we actually hung out she said she wanted to take it slow as she just got out of a relationship. So now on the third weekend i see her out she wasnt really the same...we were hanging around and **** but she wasnt as affectionate as she was before. So i just kind of did my own thing and i danced with another girl and kind of didnt follow her around cause i dont want to look like some lost puppy....then later that night she calls me when my drunk ass is walking home (its like a 3 hour walk) but i do it sometimes just cause im an idiot and is acting sweet as all hell to me and when i told her i was walking she started crying and was like "I should of given you a ride home im soo sorry" and was a total sweetheart to me. So finally i sent her a text message today saying "You confuse me" Her text back: How so Me: Cause your act like ya really like me but you like hold yourself back Her: I do because i dont want to get hurt again. I just dont want to open myself up 4 that" Me: I dont want to hurt you but in the same respect im not going to be looking like the lost puppy dog and wind up looking like an idiot Her: i know what your saying. i think we should be friends 4 now and take it slow. if its meant to work out it will. Me: im fine with that but are you fine with that...you can say u are now but when you see me out dancing with other girls will you be fine then (last time she saw me dance with another girl i can tell she was a lil upset by it) Her: yeah i can. i don't want to rush anything Now i respect that she doesnt want to rush anything but how should i really be towards her..I mean do i just ignore her now and start hitting on other girls in an attempt to make her jealous? I want to keep her interested but if i go back to the old me she might hate me for it..but if i follow her around all night then i look like the tard. Im just not sure how to work this situation.
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