goodguy123 Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 So me and my girl broke up about 4 months ago after being together for a year and a half, and I still love her and want to get her back. We still talk occasionally online and once in a while she will call me. And she has even come over a few times, but not in a few weeks. We have even tried to work it out a few times, but each time only lasted a few days before she decides she's not ready or not this or that. And she even still says thinks we might be together again, but not now, and she has no idea when or if ever. But another thing is that she has been seeing someone for a month or two, and I have no idea how serious they are getting. But she also knows I want her back bad, and I'm not sure if I'm making a mistake by showing her my true feelings, or if I should just be acting like I don't care about her anymore. I just don't like being fake, and I don't really want to play games. But at the same time I feel like I mess things up every time we talk because I bring up something about our relationship. And when she comes I feel like I mess things up even more because of things I say, but its impossible for me not to tell her that I miss her. I have tried everything possible to get her back, but nothing has worked. Is it time for me to just forget about her, which is impossible because she still contacts me? Do you think she'll come back? Should I get her a christmas present? Any advice about my situation would be greatly appreciated.
BlueEyedSarah Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 She cares about you to not say no you have no chance of getting back together. She is dating someone else, for 2 months like you said, it sounds as though she is moving on with her life, and thats what you should do too. Have no connection with her, heal your heart and then move on.
notmakingsense Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 The only chance you have is to go no-contact and move on with your life. At the very least, you should get active with friends and date a little yourself. Never be the one that calls her first, and don't be quick to return calls. When she sees that you are moving on, she might try for you a bit harder. You can decide then whether or not you want her back or whether you are meeting girls that are better for you.
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