Guest Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 Gf of almost 5 years cheated on me. I was going to break up with her anyways - so that's half the battle. I'm quite okay with the whole thing. I just have trouble finding the balance. I'm a better person because of her - she's ingrained a lot of good qualities in me. But at the same time whenever I start studying hard [she was an academic] - I'm reminded of her. How do I walk this tight rope - I want to do well in my studies - but am reminded of her - which I don't want to be. Is it just time? Any way to accelerate this process of dissociation of objects, places, events, actions - that relate to your ex? Thanks
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