Meaplus3 Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 I am currently in NC with mm only for about 2 weeks now. Every Christmas Eve for the past 9 years my H, I and kid's go to a neighbors house for Christmas Eve, MM and his wife and kid's are there as well. Now H knows about my A with mm and I believe his W know's, not completely sure but I think so. I plan on going over with H and the kid's not because I want to see mm, just because this has been a tradtion for us. I am so worried that something will look strange to the other neighbors. How should I act? AP
kymberann Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 Like normal! Like nothing is new, like nothing is going on or has gone on. If you act out of the ordinary that is when others will notice something is up. Best!
kymberann Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 I forgot to mention, hold your head high, as if nothing can bother you and that MM can't control your emotions any longer. Make us proud girl!
pureinheart Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 OMG answer, that will be quite the tense situation....unlike my situation it sounds as if you are dealing with adults....will there be alcohol there? Just watch that if there is....people get intoxicated and feelings can come out....at first sign I'd excuse myself... Hey....nothing can hurt you as H already knows....so have fun and be you!
Author Meaplus3 Posted December 23, 2006 Author Posted December 23, 2006 I forgot to mention, hold your head high, as if nothing can bother you and that MM can't control your emotions any longer. Make us proud girl! Kymberann, Right on! I will be holding my head very high, think that's a good way to show him that I can deal with this. Thank's for your support as always! AP
Author Meaplus3 Posted December 23, 2006 Author Posted December 23, 2006 OMG answer, that will be quite the tense situation....unlike my situation it sounds as if you are dealing with adults....will there be alcohol there? Just watch that if there is....people get intoxicated and feelings can come out....at first sign I'd excuse myself... Hey....nothing can hurt you as H already knows....so have fun and be you! I plan to have fun! Luckily there are plenty of other neighbors their that H and I are friend's with. Infact we are having a huge Neighborhood New Years Eve party and a bunch of them are coming, NOT mm and W, they are not exactly well received around the neighborhood, many think they are strange. I did worrry about the drinking factor and I am well aware of feeling's coming out, Think that's what I am most afraid of. H and I don't drink much and MM is not much of one either but W, she can suck them back. Hope she does not got nut's on me. AP:laugh:
movinon05 Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 I was in this situation many many times. Its not easy, but just hold your head up and do the best acting job you can. Focus on your H, your kids and the other people. Be with your H. I'm sure this won't be easy for him either. Try to pretend they're some people in the room you don't know very well.
puddleofmud Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 Try and think about it this way: you've already handled so much that this is a piece of cake with frosting and sprinkles on top!
bonehead Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 How should I act? like the man of your dreams has you on his arm.
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