amgine Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 Hello, been a while since i've been here, in fact can't remember the last time. Just to say i've put the MM behind me, in truth i rarely see him now and things are getting better. There is this guy who is really acquaintance, no sparks or chemistry, but i do like him. sometimes i have to get to know a guy before any of that excitement occurs. Anyway i like him (drawback he's a work colleague of MM), and he has always been friendly with me. anyway i recently saw him, just to speak to, but he noticed i was wearing perfume, something i don't do all the time. He said it was the same as (mentioned her name). He also said it was nice. Do you think i have a chance or should i just enjoy the attention and forget him? Do you also think this girl could be his girlfriend? Cheers
IpAncA Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 He might have just been making a compliment. I've had people mention what I wear too.
che_jesse Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 I always complement people when they do something to un-scruffify themselves. I do it to encourage them to do it again. Dont think it really means anything. Just ask him if he has gf if you don't know already.
whichwayisup Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 You're interested in another man who is taken? IF he is definately seeing someone, run the other way. Also, him being friends with the exMM, and I take it you all work for the same place? That's another reason to steer clear of going out with him.
Author amgine Posted December 23, 2006 Author Posted December 23, 2006 please read my post . I didn't say new guy was taken i just don't know at this time. And i didn't say we all work at the same place we don't as it goes i work somewhere else.
Guest Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 i think it was rude of him to say the perfume u are wearing smell like what someone else wears - i give him a F on his report card the scent of a woman and the perfume choosen by her should be assocaited and compliment directed to her and not elsewhere personally, i like subtle scents placed strategically - wink if i may throw this random question out - in the last 24 hours i have made a calculated gamble regarding dropping things off at someone's home - and i hope that did not cause upset and concern - if was done with the best intent - but in the past that has not helped - so i hope that was ok and may i also enquire as to whether any thought has been given to a brief meal or movie - just checking
whichwayisup Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 I guess come right out and ask him if he is seeing anybody (Then ask afew trusted friends who know him to confirm it) Sorry I assumed that you all worked together. My mistake.
Guest Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 HEY, TRUST ISSUE! wheni i ask my wife a question - her answer is all i need - i believe her speaking of believe - I HAVE SORT OF BECOME ATTACHED TO THAT WORD - it means a lot to me. so when someone tells me to believe in response to something they should understand the impotance i place behind it for example: if i pose a question in a way that is wondering - to illict a response, if someone says BELIEVE that is a positive that is YES so, that should required a follow thru with commitment. unfortunately some of my old pals from the basket team seem to toss out these things like candy. well, it would appear like just another normal non-contact, disrespectful day at the factory for ol me - good thing i am getting time and a half and sending the bill - wink to be honest - i thought about start threads today just like the ones in here but with a different point of view, but decided against that and probably is best to just read the post and leave comments to the pros
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