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So I meet this girl on a dating site. She gives me her number so I go to pick her up for drinks. We get to the bar and talk for a while. She tells me I am cute. Five minutes later she tells me "I am not looking for something serious". Then she tells me how she is dating 3 other guys and having casual sex with one. I should have left her right there.....

 

We touched each other casually as we talked. So the club was dead and we wnet somewhere else. That was also dead, so we went to a third place. The mood was kind of chill and we weren't talking much, but listening to live music. Then, she calls her GAY friend and was like "rescue me"!?? So he shows up, I go to the bathroom and comeback, they are gone!

 

Now this has to be about the rudest thing that has ever been done to me. I mean I was bored too, it was in the middle of the week anyway. Just to up and leave like that? That's just wrong. No wonder so many women get beat on, this one deserves it.

 

The sad thing is, the majority of women fall into this behavior.

 

I am seriously comtemplating just being single for the rest of my life. I am dead serious, no dates, etc. There's always too much drama and it never makes my life better so why bother?

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You can't accuse the majority based on this one woman, but I can see why you're pissed.

 

I had an experience like this a few years ago... met her online and hooked up for drinks that same night. She makes a call on her cell when I first get there, and our evening ends an hour later.

 

Was she inconsiderate? Yes.

 

Was it illegal? No.

 

I suspect there was someone else in the picture, but I didn't bother to ask, and I didn't care to find out. Just chalked it up to experience and went on my merry way.

 

Dating can be risky, but that's part of the package.

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I think you were being a little overdramatic when saying that girl deserved to be beat on. Yes she was rude; that was not nice at all. Some girls are like that, and like you said before you should have seen a big red flag at the beginning of the date unless you like girls who date several men at once. That's your call, not mine. There are still good, wholesome girls out there, and I can say this because I am one and have many close friends that are as well. There is still hope.

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You can't accuse the majority based on this one woman, but I can see why you're pissed.

 

The problem is that I have encountered many, many inconsiderate women.

 

I am seriously contemplating never dating again, there just seems to be no point. I am usually much happier when there is no woman in my life, because who wants something like this?

 

I am tired of this people! I work hard to get what I have and to be a good person and this is the thanks I get!

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i have to agree with the above two posters.

 

Yes what she did was rude. I would be pissed too. Now you know what the red flags are next time you go on a date with someone.

 

But women, or anyone for that matter never 'deserve' to be beat on, for any reason.

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Some girls are like that, and like you said before you should have seen a big red flag at the beginning of the date unless you like girls who date several men at once.

 

That's all there is to choose from.

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I will say that her behaviour was shockingly outrageous but she doesn't deserve to be 'beat on'. Being an inconsiderate rude human being is not a crime... although I can certainly understand those who feel it should be. :eek::p

 

And physical abuse of any sort is simply wrong. No grey areas on that one. :)

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But women, or anyone for that matter never 'deserve' to be beat on, for any reason.

 

I agree, but I am beginning to uinderstand why it happens so often..... scary.

 

Plus, women seem to love the man forever if he does, but the nice guy with the good job gets schat.

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Plus, women seem to love the man forever if he does, but the nice guy with the good job gets schat.

 

Nice guys have to work harder, because they have more to offer in the long term.

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So I meet this girl on a dating site. She gives me her number so I go to pick her up for drinks. We get to the bar and talk for a while. She tells me I am cute. Five minutes later she tells me "I am not looking for something serious". Then she tells me how she is dating 3 other guys and having casual sex with one. I should have left her right there.....

 

We touched each other casually as we talked. So the club was dead and we wnet somewhere else. That was also dead, so we went to a third place. The mood was kind of chill and we weren't talking much, but listening to live music. Then, she calls her GAY friend and was like "rescue me"!?? So he shows up, I go to the bathroom and comeback, they are gone!

 

Now this has to be about the rudest thing that has ever been done to me. I mean I was bored too, it was in the middle of the week anyway. Just to up and leave like that? That's just wrong. No wonder so many women get beat on, this one deserves it.

 

The sad thing is, the majority of women fall into this behavior.

 

I am seriously comtemplating just being single for the rest of my life. I am dead serious, no dates, etc. There's always too much drama and it never makes my life better so why bother?

 

I would have been mad also if that happend to me. You probably should have ended it there after she said that to you.

 

Now there are a lot of women that are not like that but I can see if thats all your finding then thats why you think the majority of women are like this.

 

I wouldn't give up just yet. Stop going doing the online dating thing. It's not getting you anywhere.

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Girls that date several men at once is not ALL there is to choose from. I've never dated more than one guy at the same time. I don't know many girls that have. Most of this is because I am young too of course.

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Nice guys have to work harder, because they have more to offer in the long term.

 

Now, one would think a woman would be smart enough to REALIZE who has future potential.

 

So the loser guy has to work less? No wonder I am single.

 

BTW, this girl even said the one guy she is dating never has any money and she is tired of paying for him.......

 

but I am not good enough for some reason.

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That's all there is to choose from.

Where are you finding these women at?

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Nice guys have to work harder, because they have more to offer in the long term.

 

That statement makes zero sense.

 

Let's rephrase that. It should be "jerks have to work harder, because they have little to offer in the long term."

 

:)

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I wouldn't give up just yet. Stop going doing the online dating thing. It's not getting you anywhere.

 

Do you have an alternate suggestion? The women i seem to meet at singles bars have the same qualities and I am the youngest person at my job...

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That statement makes zero sense.

 

Let's rephrase that. It should be "jerks have to work harder, because they have little to offer in the long term."

 

:)

 

Why would a jerk have to work harder if he gets chicks so easily?

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Where are you finding these women at?

 

Online dating sites, singles bars, in psychology class (no kidding).

 

They are everywhere, I don't make this stuff up! I am starting to see it as a by product of a failing society.

 

Everyone's going to end up living by themselves in a 1 bedroom apartment...

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Why would a jerk have to work harder if he gets chicks so easily?

Wouldn't the jerk have to work harder to keep her? Sure they can get women easy but once they get to know them...not so good in the long run.

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you're gonna meet those kinds of girls on dating websites. Thats pretty much it right there.

 

But those women aren't all there is. You would probably have better luck looking offline.

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Wouldn't the jerk have to work harder to keep her? Sure they can get women easy but once they get to know them...not so good in the long run.

 

I'm not referring to the jerk keeping her for the long run, especially since the original poster considers himself a nice guy with a good job.

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Why would a jerk have to work harder if he gets chicks so easily?

 

Oh, wait, I forgot to factor in 'quality' as in 'quality' of chicks the jerk would get. :)

 

So, with that variable in play your statement actually DOES make sense. The jerks wouldn't have to work hard because they appeal to a lower calibre of women who have low expectations in their men.

 

Got it now. :)

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But those women aren't all there is. You would probably have better luck looking offline.

 

Nope, looked offline too. I didn't just automatically migrate to dating sites, I tried the old fashion way many times. Was hoping a dating site might offer something better...

 

Here is what this girl's description reads...

 

"Someone with similar interests. I'm pretty laid back so I would also like to meet someone who is also. Someone who has set goals in life and knows what they want. I'm pretty much up for anything. Loyalty and Honesty is a must. If you dont have those qualities then dont bother. I'm not into playing games."

 

I feel like vomiting

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Oh, wait, I forgot to factor in 'quality' as in 'quality' of chicks the jerk would get. :)

 

So, with that variable in play your statement actually DOES make sense. The jerks wouldn't have to work hard because they appeal to a lower calibre of women who have low expectations in their men.

 

Got it now. :)

 

At least you got me thinking... rock on!

 

*chuckle*

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Girls that date several men at once is not ALL there is to choose from. I've never dated more than one guy at the same time. I don't know many girls that have. Most of this is because I am young too of course.

 

I think this is a lie because 90% of the women I have dated had some sort of piece on the side when we met. Now you can label it what you want, but they fall into the same category in my book.

 

I don't think I am that special so I am assuming this is true for the majority.

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At least you got me thinking... rock on!

 

*chuckle*

 

Glad to be of assistance. I take Visa, MC, Amex, Discover... :p

 

And this is testimony to the fact that the so-called 'nice guys' actually ARE the winners in the end. They are the guys who have the most to offer therefore they get the best 'chicks' who also have the most to offer. :D

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