katarina774 Posted December 22, 2006 Posted December 22, 2006 OK here is the story, I am trying my best to get over my ex and I had a Christmas dinner with my new employer. As we were waiting for our table and having a few drinks at the bar my ex from years ago came in. He spook as he went by. Another friend of ours went by and stopped and talked for awhile. The old ex is expecting his first child, he is 46 and never been married, we dated for 5 years. Anyways I saw him after I found out and I congratulated him. Tonight I saw him and when I spoke to him he said to me " You are looking really good" I told him he was crazy yadda yadda yadda and I went to sit down at the table with my company and we had dinner. My boss kept saying to me that he kept looking at me,etc. anyways when we got thru with dinner everyone had left except for us and my old friend and my ex, they were still at the bar. We went to the bar to have one more for the road. I talked and laughed with my friends and my ex kept watching me. As we started to leave I went over(finally) and spoke to him bc he was with my other friend we talked and laughed and I told him how happy I was about his upcoming arrival. He kept hugging me really tight and saying it was so great to see you, blah blah blah, I ask him about the new girl, I actually sent them a Christmas card and I thought I was over him but tonight made me really sad. This is the guy that was non-commital just like me and now here he is expecitng a baby in April and going to marry the girl in June. I acted nonchalant ( if that is how you spell it) but after I got home I got real depressed. I dont know what is wrong with me, all of a sudden I am missing the wrong ex. I think a lot of it is bc we had a miscarriage and we dated forever and didn't get married and now all of a sudden here is this girl pregnant ( I could have done that) and he is marrying her. Why am I so depressed. He was really nice and I acted as if he was a long lost friend. I am so confused. Now I am more depressed than ever. Please help me. I am so depressed now I can't stand it.
Guest Posted December 22, 2006 Posted December 22, 2006 No reason really we dated for 7 years and one night our friends got in a fight and next thing I know we got into a fight and we both started dating someone else instantly. Both of us broke up with the rebounder but did not get back together.
westernxer Posted December 22, 2006 Posted December 22, 2006 Why am I so depressed. Because you're still trying to get over the ex. Not that ex, but the other ex. Or something like that. The Christmas season tends to make things worse, too.
Guest Posted December 22, 2006 Posted December 22, 2006 ahhhhhhhhhhh, sorry about your pain. hey, don't feel bad about how you feel - it just means you really loved his person. nothing wrong with wishing that was you, as long as you don't dwell on it and realize ITS NOT. life isn't fair sometimes, theres ups and downs - and in the end it all evens out.
Guest Posted December 22, 2006 Posted December 22, 2006 would u like to tell us about the pregnacy? or is that too personal? i love children and a giving birth to a child is something special
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