asnath Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 we managed to solve our problems based on time factor and things have been looking good i must say, but now my boyfriend has been quite lately, we would have short conversation that would last 2 minutes for a day and thats it, by the way he has gone to see his parents as a results he is not around town but would be in the next five days...........question is, i dont want to stress about something that is not working and i dont want to be seen throwing tantrums over this, my heart tells me to let him go cause he seem to be not serious, something tells me our relationship is a relationship of inconvenience, theirs just a lot of things, i feel so lonely and sad, i feel i can just burst into tears by this. what do you think, i want to resolve this in more muture and objective way not over reacting, what do you thinks guys, i do love him though.........
hrtingsobd Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 It seems to me that you know what needs to happen. I get the same way and want for the relationship to work just because of wanting a relationship. Something seems fishy that he is only talking 2 min a day....I talk to the girl working at the gas station longer than that. Is that the type of relationship u want to have....everytime conflict then he shuts down? Sure you love him...and it will hurt but you will be okay in the end.
Parsley Posted December 30, 2006 Posted December 30, 2006 I've had something very similar happen to me very recently. Seriously..Wednesday just gone. I had two months of my boyfriend barely talking to me and being really quiet, and I acted in much the same way as you did, crying and getting myself into a real state about the relationship - but I ignored my instincts about it, and ended up getting my heart completely broken, and it's not the first time I've ignored my gut feelings. Bring it up now, much as it will hurt, and sort through it now. Please please please don't leave it to linger - I'm feeling the pain of doing that this very second and I can't bear the thought of anyone else having it when I could have helped prevent it!
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